So /adv, I need advice. I met this beautiful taken woman at

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So /adv, I need advice.

I met this beautiful taken woman at workplace and after first couple of weeks of awkwardness we hit it off and start going on coffee and lunch breaks together. We get to know each other pretty well and over the past couple of months we become best friends at work. We start hanging out after work as well, mostly going on walks and other sports activities. A couple of weeks ago she invites me to this music festival and makes sure it will be just the two of us. We have a good time but nothing really happened between us. A week after, we're at a company party and we get ridiculously drunk. She calls me beautiful, things get sexual. I confront her about that a couple of days later and she brushes it off like it's nothing. She also does several small nice things for me and constantly shows she cares about me. I do have feelings for her..

My question is, how can I know what are her intentions? Should I directly ask her? It bothers me, that when we are alone we act like a couple, yet at the end of the day she goes back to her boyfriend. She is also hiding the whole thing from her boyfriend.

I don't believe she is using me as I never did anything for her that I wouldn't do for my other friends. She also recently made sure to vouch for me in a company meeting, so that I would get a promotion eventhough I am not the best candidate to get promoted.

If you want more background just ask away..