I was with a close friend / fwb the other night and he was pretty - /adv/ - Advice

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2016-06-18 12:50:01 Post No. 17267857
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Anonymous 2016-06-18 12:50:01 Post No. 17267857 [Report]

I was with a close friend / fwb the other night and he was pretty drunk, I was sober. He started talking about how he loves me and Im a wonderful person and the perfect girl but Im too young for him and his friends would think its weird if we are seen together too much. He said I just "don't get it" because I'm not his age. He threw my phone at me said "i dont care about you, i mean i care about you but i dont give a fuck about you" but at that point he was pretty mad anyways because his friend wouldn't leave and they were fighting a lot, so i guessed he was just taking it out on me. Which part did he mean? If he meant any of it.
As for our age difference we are both over 18 and I'm 5 years younger than him, so its not a huge age gap. But to him it is.

Anonymous 2016-06-18 13:07:46 Post No.17267886
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Anonymous 2016-06-18 13:07:46 Post No.17267886 [Report]

He's mad at himself for not making that move. So he is taking it out on you. This is an abusive behavior. Don't pursue a romantic, long term relationship. It will become toxic, or abusive. If it's toxic, he'll constantly worry about being good enough for you. And he'll have confidence problems. Your affection for him will not be reciprocated in the same fashion.
It's that or abuse.

My advice would be to abort the situation entirely.

Anonymous 2016-06-18 13:20:30 Post No.17267904
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Anonymous 2016-06-18 13:20:30 Post No.17267904 [Report]

OP, to you it's not a huge age difference because you haven't lived through those five years. Believe me, when you are eighteen you are going to look at thirteen year old boys and understand exactly what the issue was about.

Anonymous 2016-06-18 16:11:09 Post No.17268333
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>>17267857
>he threw my phone at me

What a fucking baby, fuck this guy t b h

Anonymous 2016-06-18 16:14:36 Post No.17268340
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Anonymous 2016-06-18 16:14:36 Post No.17268340 [Report]

>>17267857

>I care about you but I don't give a fuck about you

kek

Anonymous 2016-06-18 17:39:55 Post No.17268575
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Anonymous 2016-06-18 17:39:55 Post No.17268575 [Report]

>>17267904
I am 18. Im almost 19, hes almost 24

Anonymous 2016-06-18 18:03:21 Post No.17268627
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Anonymous 2016-06-18 18:03:21 Post No.17268627 [Report]

>>17268575
Nice misleading line in your OP about both being over 18. You're just starting uni, he's finished and living as an adult. You can't really understand how much different those roles are.