Is, "Are you fucking kidding me?," condescending? Girlfriend

i wouldn't call it condescending specifically, but it is insensitive, especially as you both were already on thin ice

How did you mean for it to sound? Flattering?

Tone accounts for everything. Based on context, however, it seems like you did mean for it to be a hurtful come-back to something. Whether it was warranted or not is hard to say.

>>17249517
Just incredulous about the thing she did. Pissed about it as well.

>>17249531
What did she do?

maybe she doesn't know what condescending is, you should send her a text message with the dictionary definition of it.

>>17249479
Depends how you said it, but it probably wasn't. Doesn't mean it wasn't rude.

>>17249479
it can be. depends on tone and context, like pretty much anything else a person could say.

>>17249554
lel