When people are caring and nice to me but don't want to

Yes, stop being so selfish.
Fuck what you like, you aren't important.
Only other people are important.

>>17247884
If they're caring and nice they might be good friends to keep, but you should get one or two that are into what you like. You should go to those friends to talk about yours interests but the other ones for a shoulder to cry on.

>>17247971
Thanks, anon! I'm trying to do this, that means i am normal.
But i want my significant other be interested in what i like as well and it seems hard to find one.
Should my partner share my passions or is this unnecessary?

>>17248259
>Should my partner share my passions or is this unnecessary?

They do not have to share them. They SHOULD show some sort of interest or support, at the very least, and listen to you talk about them or go do them. Your romantic partners are not obligated to be copies of you. It's nice when they like the same things, but it's not that common. Relationships need to have differences to stay interesting. Having separate friend groups, passions, etc, are healthy things. You don't want someone who only does stuff with you, because they're just going along with what you want/like. That breeds co-dependency and is very unhealthy.

>>17248279
Okay, thanks, anon!
Yeah, i have had bad experience with close friends and crushes who couldn't even fake interest in what i enjoy.
Now i know that i wasn't the one making them uncomfortable.
Yeah, i want a person to have separate interests, though having one shared passion sounds kind of neat.

Again i'll try to shoot for "true love" but if a person is polite, caring and has nothing in common it's fine.