Me and my ex are friends just benefits, but i feel a deep feeling of jealousy towards girls and other guys she fucks
How do i stop being so jealous and get pass that? Wat do?
thanks in advance
Maybe you should re-think of your policy of friends with benefits if it doesn't suit you.
>>17240468
What do you mean it doesn't suit me? It suits me just fine, i just want to know how to get rid of the jealousy
>>17240297
the only way to stop that is to cut the fwb bullshit
>>17240505
Why tho?
>>17240515
because it's degenerate. if you want sex, seek a new girlfriend.
>>17240599
>because it's degenerate
/pol/, please
Real talk, I feel like in that situation there will always be some jealousy. I'm sure she feels jealous about other girls you fuck too.
The only real way to deal with it, is to acknowledge we are very possessive creatures who want ownership of all things that make us feel good, so we can feel emotionally secure. With that knowledge in mind, next time you feel jealous, remind yourself you have as much power to make her jealous as she does to you.
tl;dr: get over it
>>17240515
because feelings dont go away when you spend time with someone, especially when that time is spent fucking or doing something intimate. drop her and never talk to her again or deal with it.
man what a shitty advice board for someone who's main purpose is to give good advice. Now /pol/ weenies are lecturing me on ethics lol
>>17240601
/deg/ please
>>17240778
As someone in a similar situation, either just stop with the FWB stuff or ask her to be exclusive again.
FWB requires a strong clarity of your feelings, and if you are feeling you want something more, then it can't just stay FWB.
It sounds sucky, but eventually it will come to a head and something will have to be done.