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So got together with a girl recently; we had decided we'd be exclusive. I knew that she had tinder prior to this. She said she deleted her account but I noticed she had the app still on her phone weeks later. I put that on backburner and thought I'd devise a way to confront her with it, but things were going well and kinda forgot/neglected it.
Now I see that she deleted it as we got more serious. How can I ensure she wasn't using it to cheat before? I should have confronted her earlier when she still had the app, now I think she'll just deny it. I was happy to see it was gone but now I realize there goes the proof, and I never did get to see what the story was like I had intended.
What should I have done; confront her earlier? How would you have tactfully, what can be done now?
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Relationships are about trust. Let it go.
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>>17225379
I know, but it eats at me; this is the most involved I've ever been and its proving more difficult that I expected to let go and trust.
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>>17225385
I would add open honesty to trust, just tell her exactly what you've told us, you shouldn't conceal parts of yourself from her.
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>>17225392
Okay. Thank you. Hope it goes well. I know people tend to go with plausible deniability, and I don't want to be insecure about the relationship, so I hesitated to do so. Idk if I should add that part though
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>>17225385
get over it. let it go. or dump her and reflect on it until you can realize youre insecure and can get over it.
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>>17225490
I know I'm prone to being insecure.
It comes and goes, mostly goes, but when I feel it coming I want to be able to avoid it and feel like myself
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