How the fuck do I talk to girls, especially my ex? > got

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>>17212813
btw I initiated the breakup a couple years back. she was shy and rather depressed and I left like a jackass because she never wanted to do anything or go out and be under the sun. A lot of common friends said she was really hurt by it and I felt bad, but I felt like I was being selfish and demanding a lot out of her at the same time, but I was also worried about her.

>>17212837
Wait until you see her in person to catch up. It'll hopefully give you a chance to say what you said after your first post

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>>17213059
That's the thing, we've hung out in person and have talked about hanging out again but it's really vague.

A couple months after we broke up I hung out with her once, and I could tell she wanted to kiss me, but I kind of turned away for the same reasons I stated in the OP.

When we hung out today I felt she was still attracted to me in some way, but I don't know for sure if she's interested in being in a relationship. I know I can onlyou ask but I feel like I ought to entertain her interest more before pursuing a relationship.

>>17214158
So you're not attracted to your ex but you still hang out with her? Why?

You clearly have no excitement when you hang out with her

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>>17214170
I am attracted to her, but I'm so shy and withdrawn it's difficult to share myself with her and really just don't know how.

I've had a bit of a flip in my life since the last time I saw her. A lot of built up self-hatred and confusion along with isolation has really fucked me up. I found out I was conceived of rape, and that being my origin and already having a shitty life I had a mental breakdown, went homeless and juggled jobs, my friends drifted away or became hostile and demeaning. i isolated myself from the few friends that actually cared about me until a couple months ago but still I've already been rejected by many more people than individuals I've befriended.

I just don't know who i am anymore really. I threw myself down to rock bottom and now I'm dont feel the same.

Honestly just shoot yourself senpai

It won't get better

>>17212813
>ck in touch with ex gf (we dated fo
perhaps you should make a clean break

>>17214392
> it's a 'he didn't read the whole thread' episode

Pls respond

Try to be friends with her at least, OP.

If you could use a friend, try and take one on. And if things go from there, great. If not, great. Start treatin' yourself to things you might like breh