TL;DR Should I tell this girl I can't ejaculate having sex

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2016-06-02 21:06:29 Post No. 17212504
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Anonymous 2016-06-02 21:06:29 Post No. 17212504 [Report]

TL;DR Should I tell this girl I can't ejaculate having sex and can only do it while masturbating and that I have problems staying hard if I'm using a condom sometimes, or just hope for the best?

I've been dating a girl I met online almost a month ago. She's a virgin so we spoke about sex very carefully. Finally we've shared some naughty pictures and want to do it this saturday.
Problem is that she doesn't know that i've had a porn addiction in the past and I've ruined myself to normal sex. I can have it for hours and I will never ejaculate.
Also when I'm using a condom I have problems maintaining an erection unless the sex is a roller-coaster of emotions from the beginning until the end...
Should I hope for the best or talk to her about it beforehand? What would you girls say if your date told you these things?

Anonymous 2016-06-02 21:19:51 Post No.17212566
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Anonymous 2016-06-02 21:19:51 Post No.17212566 [Report]

I have the same problem. I have no idea what to call it, or if it has a scientific term.

Anonymous 2016-06-02 21:36:36 Post No.17212618
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Anonymous 2016-06-02 21:36:36 Post No.17212618 [Report]

>>17212504
bump

Anonymous 2016-06-02 21:53:24 Post No.17212668
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Anonymous 2016-06-02 21:53:24 Post No.17212668 [Report]

>>17212504
Have you tried to cure your dick with no porn / no fap? Because in this case it can really help.

Anonymous 2016-06-02 22:04:10 Post No.17212706
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Anonymous 2016-06-02 22:04:10 Post No.17212706 [Report]

>>17212668
yeah I've been trying. I haven't fapped in a week and haven't seen porn (except the one she sends me) in about the same time. I'm still afraid it's gonna impact on my performance

Anonymous 2016-06-02 22:44:38 Post No.17212886
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Anonymous 2016-06-02 22:44:38 Post No.17212886 [Report]

>>17212504
bump?
any girl? what would you say?

Anonymous 2016-06-02 22:54:55 Post No.17212944
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Anonymous 2016-06-02 22:54:55 Post No.17212944 [Report]

>>17212706
A week? Nigger you need several months. Look up nofap.

Anonymous 2016-06-02 23:17:10 Post No.17213031
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Anonymous 2016-06-02 23:17:10 Post No.17213031 [Report]

>>17212944
I know it takes months to "cure" yourself from porn and fap addiction, I was asking if I should tell her or not about my problems

Anonymous 2016-06-02 23:25:26 Post No.17213064
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Anonymous 2016-06-02 23:25:26 Post No.17213064 [Report]

>>17213031
I think you should. I only recently got a girlfriend and the sex is super awkward cause i have the same problem. I told her about everything.

Anonymous 2016-06-02 23:26:08 Post No.17213067
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Anonymous 2016-06-02 23:26:08 Post No.17213067 [Report]

>>17213064
well I hope she understands. Thanks!

Anonymous 2016-06-02 23:36:19 Post No.17213113
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Anonymous 2016-06-02 23:36:19 Post No.17213113 [Report]

I think you are not ready to have sex with her. It's her first time, so you have to be chill and confident if you want to make the sex nice to her. Talk about it with the girl, wait a little longer with no fap.

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