If a same-sexed friend is jealous of the relationship you have

>>17201915
>jealous that your friend isnt spending time with you
Hmmm I wonder why they are bothered by this.

>>17201921
I'm not saying we're not spending time together. This is an online friend. We talk almost every day. And she mainly gets upset when I mention things about us getting serious. She asks first though and I just try to answer neutrally but truthfully.

>>17201915
If they get over it in the end, then yes. But it is understandable to feel neglected after you become the second fiddle to someone you barely even know.

A friend of mine actually fell deeper into depression after I moved to be with my girlfriend, and while I feel shit about it, his happiness shouldn't ride on the availability of a single person. I even told him as much, encouraged him to get treatment, and he is now recovering, even damn near thriving.

He always was a bit odd though, so I would could his reaction as "extreme".

>>17201935
Also, she is in a relationship. And they do well together. So I don't really understand this.

>>17201940
I became friends with her after my relationship tho. I've been with SO for almost 6 years. We've been friends for about 4.

She's been with her bf for almost 10 years tho.

She's been acting more intensely upset as time goes on.