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Hey /adv/

A beta male has shown intrest in me. I am a reasonably attractive 20 something, and I consider us friends, but I don't like him back. He has revealed to me that he is a virgin which is really tugging on my heart strings. I am not usually attracted to small, scrawny, beta males so I'm concerned if it would be appropriate to release him of his v-card while also maintaining a friendship (and nothing more)? Is such a thing possible?

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>>17194942

Fucking someone out of pity is beneath you. So he's a virgin - too bad.

If you show ostensible sexual interest in him, he'll begin to feel "entitled" to you in some way, and that will make you resentful. Don't create a bad situation for yourself or him.
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If he has feelings for you, you better keep your distance because it could complicate things. Also, I had my fair share of women but if I could choose between remaining a virgin or fucking someone who doesn't care about me the slightest, I would choose remaining a virgin. Of course it's easy to talk in hindsight.

What makes him beta?
If you empathize with him and want to help him, the best thing you can do is helping him overcoming his betaness.
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>>17194942
Fucking slut. Although, you're a good-hearted slut. I like you, cunt.
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>>17194942
>20 something
Does that mean you're a male or female?
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>>17194942
Post pics.
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>>17194951
I'm afraid you don't know what the fuck you're talking about.

>>17194942
I doubt this would be a good idea.
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>>17194942
Don't, bad idea.
If you want to help, help him get a real relationship. Encourage him to start working out, introduce him to other gals, etc.

And stop with the "beta male" shit, those bad memes are worthless to everyone and reinforce idiotic ideas and behaviors.
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You probably wouldn't be able to be friends, but if you turn him down you're not going to be friends anymore anyway. So, it's up to you I suppose, or you can ask him what he wants if you're that apathetic about the whole thing.
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>>17194942
Completing his challenge without making him jump through the hoops is going to fuck him up, he'll never learn how to actually start a relationship.

Also, if his interest is more than sexual that's significantly worse. You'll really fuck his mind. First relationships are supposed to help you grow, not make you more confused.
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>>17194989
I'm a girl. I should probably mention he's 5 years older than I am.
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>>17195005
Dont give him the P
He will have a heartbreak.

Help him man up or get a girl like >>17194411
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>>17194993
How much do I show?
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>>17195019
As much as you're comfortable with . I'm not looking to fap. I'm just calling your narcissistic claim that you're attractive.
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>>17194984
Might be a bit late to keep my distance, we hang out all the time and apparently I'm his closest friend.
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>>17195025
Keep your distance in a sexual sense. Tell him firmly that friends and nothing more. His problem isn't that he can't get sex. It's that he can't get female attention and make girls happy. Sex is just a consequence and if you sleep with him that will only screw him up emotionally. What he needs is trearment for his betaness, not for his virginity.
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>>17195023
I'm not fat, if that's what you mean.
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>>17195023
How is it narcissism? what a sperg you are lol, getting your jimmies rustled just because someone has a modicum of confidence in their appearance. she said 'reasonably attractive', not 'very attractive' or 'hot' or anything of that nature. 'reasonably attractive' is like a 6, that's not some kind of big boast
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>>17195032
I've been firm, but he got me drunk once and the things I said might have lead him on.
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>>17195036
It's not a woman's place to decide how attractive they are. That's for a man to tell them.
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>>17195039
What did you tell him?
>>17195034
Post more
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>>17195041
I've been told by him that I'm cute, as well as the other man who's shown interest in me, and my ex.
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>>17195039
>he got me drunk once

Oh, no! Poor thing! How dare he hold you down and pour alcohol down your throat? Stupid bitch. You got yourself drunk. You led him on. It's your fault, too.

>>17195034
Nice hands, desu. I like girls with long, skinny fingers. If you let your nails grow out a bit I'd let you stroke my dick tenderly.
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>>17195047
Apparently I went on and on about my sexual history and loudly considered blowing him. I'm shocked and embarrassed to death over it and I told him that.
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>>17195048
Then you should have said "men have told me I am reasonably attractive" so your assertion would have some credibility.
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>>17195054
I'm kind of an irresponsible drinker, but not to the point where I black out or anything stupid. He got his arm around me which I usually wouldn't allow but we joked later on about him being a preditor.
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>>17195061
or maybe you should stop being autistic

js, real advice homie
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>>17195056
>slope

Okay, so you were right about him being a beta. His yellow fever makes it evident.
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>>17195061
I didn't consider it because my attractiveness isn't that important.
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>>17195068
tbqhwy famalama dingdong, didn't the legs already give that away?

(Not her, btw)
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>>17195056
Blowing him was a bit too much. That's hard to make it clear. If you go with I was drunk, he will be frustrated but will understand. Although, if he doesn't have feelings for you, you can blow him, it's not the end of the world. Just make sure that he knows it's just a bj.
More pics
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>>17195068
I'm not Asian, I'm black and white.
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>>17195056
Between your opening post and pictures you have me interested, other anons are just jealous that the hypothetical sex isn't with them.

Still doesn't change that it's a bad idea. I know you want to "help" him, but as others have said it's not a good idea. The best argument I have is that I agree with >>17194984 in that as a non-virgin in hindsight I'm glad I didn't get it out of pity.
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>>17195075
>>17195068
Since we're on races, why don't I show you both a rare Elmer Fudd specimen? Except it's even rarer, as it's part blue!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nh26BTRMc3I
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>>17195068
>>17195072
>i don't know what epicanthal folds look like
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>>17195080
Yucky, I hate tumblr sludge
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>>17195075
Your black part isn't really visible, how much part of you is black?
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>>17195073
I'm actually a bit of a sex fiend so I think I would have jumped his bones by now if I didn't have morals. I don't engage outside of a relationship, usually, but my one and only boyfriend broke up with me when I turned 20 and the lack of attention is taking it's toll.
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>>17195095
My father was black. I don't go outside much at all if that helps puts my melanin in context.
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>>17195100
Right off the bat, I can tell you're kinkier than sin.
I'm not going to lie, you're pretty much going to devour and destroy him.
This is going to be neat.

Go ahead and make him a fuckbuddy, but please tell him it's not for an actual relationship, it's just a once-in-a-hundred-years thing.

(Wasn't that guy above, but pls moar.)
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>>17195100
I feel you, but keep your principles and morals. If you look back after you found someone who loves you, you will realize you made the right decision. Just tell him that you were drunk and that you only want to be friends with him. If you feel sorry for him, steer him in the right direction to becoming a valuable man worthy of attention.

Belly?
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>>17195109
>>17195117
I actually don't have any pictures on my phone that reveal that much skin because I dress modestly.
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>>17195100
You sound like my first girlfriend, except she was actually interested in me. I feel bad for your friend because I find your behavior to be intoxicating as fuck and I would make very bad decisions for someone like you. As has been shown in the past. Find a sexually mature dude to fuck your brains out and spare your friend.
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>>17195131
Then show the pic with modest dressing
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>>17195131
But your phone as a camera, doesn't it, stupid cunt?
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>>17195138
People are most likely to respond positively to you if you're polite.
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>>17195102
Wow, you are snow white compared to most half black people. Any more pics?
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>>17195134
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>>17195149
I really don't go outside. The sun makes me uncomfortable.
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>i show interest in contrast to hatred
>everyone piles on trying to get fap material
anon so predictable.
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>>17195150
You're nice, but curly hair widens your face. Have you tried straigtening it?
More pics?
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>>17195150

This guy hit the nail on the fucking head >>17195036. 6/10 wnb.
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>>17195162
I straighten my hair often but with the weather being has it it's been, it curls back quickly.
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>>17195162
>this is a bad thing
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>>17195170
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>>17195182
Ok, any pics with straight hair?
What have you decided to do with your friend? Do you let him pass or do you introduce him to hawt kinkyness?
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>>17195204
The pictures on my phone are at the point when my hair begins to go from straight, to wavy, to curly.
I don't find him appealing enough to have more than a one-off encounter, unless he has a huge dick and incredible stamina. He's smaller than I am, so I find it doubtful. My last boyfriend could hold me down.
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As a faggot beta myself- dont fuck him unless you want him to think you are the special one for him and he is your fucking knight
Just say you are not interested and add some harsh words so he will get motivation to change
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>>17195004
I wish I knew that before my first relationship was a prolong online affair that made me question my sexuality and also tanked my self esteem.

>t. 20 y/o beta kissless virgin with no idea how to get close to someone because I'm afraid spilling baggage will repulse people but all I want is someone that will listen, but other friends in relationships say that's a really selfish, weak thing to do and I don't deserve love if I think some other person needs t' make me happy, and as an unattractive male I should get used to being alone anyway because I'm not entitled anyone's intimacy, emotional or otherwise.
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>>17195212
>My last boyfriend could hold me down.
Stop being more intoxicating. I think that kinky is an understatement and you want a hand on your neck. Goddamn femanons.
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>>17195215
I can be harsh. I think I was, when I was drinking. He said I rejected him on top of considering a pity blowjob.
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Sounds like he's just infatuated with you. Go right ahead and fuck him. You come off as narcissistic cunt, so you'll be doing him a favor by ending that friendship.

>>17195034
>>17195100
>>17195056
You look lovely in the pictures you sent, but everyone looks nice with the right angles. If you want to prove you're attractive, post a picture of you facing the camera

like this:
http://imgur.com/7PnNTjE

and do not tilt your face

none of this shit:
http://imgur.com/FJMUrsV http://imgur.com/a9fvzfZ

then take a picture where you're smiling with your teeth showing

like this:
http://imgur.com/T8DDhdU
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>>17195212
Is he that weaker and smaller than you are?
Then go femdom or be on top.

Any other pics? Breasts in clothes? Butt?
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>>17195220
I don't consider reaching for help selfish.
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>>17195228
He is considerably smaller than I am. I've carried him once.
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>>17195227
I don't smile.
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>>17195233
That's cute. You could carry him to the bedroom. How much taller are you?
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>>17195228
>can't spot an obvious sub
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>>17195249
Exactly
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>>17195249
>>17195251
I can, but subs can be switches.
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>>17195255
And a switch would probably be interested in doming a scrawny small beta male, instead of "not usually attracted", thus your assumption is bad.
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>>17195260
She made step 1
Feeling sorry for him.
After this she only needs to wake up her motherly instinct and take careof him a bit, then live out all her frustrations of not getting attention on him.
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>>17195227
Roast me, anon. This is as straight the camera is going to be with my tard brain operating at 5am
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>>17195270
Pity is not an attractive thing, for me.
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>>17195275
Goddammit, I can't top someone with that face. My last GF looked young but that's pedophile territory.
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>>17195275
>reasonably attractive
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>>17195284
But, I'm 20
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>>17194984
>if I could choose between remaining a virgin or fucking someone who doesn't care about me the slightest, I would choose remaining a virgin
This. 100 times. Being a virgin really isn't that bad.

Also, I don't know what you consider a beta male. Is it just appearance?
For me a "beta male" is someone who has no thrive to achieve better in anything. That is the only thing I can not stand. And if he is like that he is already lost.
If he does work on things it shouldn't be impossible for him to find a girlfriend. Maybe he just doesn't know too many girls.
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>>17195288
I met him at a traditional gaming event and he couldn't stop twitching, looking down, and speaking softly while we were playing.
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>>17195275
You're more attractive than most girls.
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>>17195287
Do you look older with makeup? Real age doesn't matter for my morale when I'd still feel like a child molester on top of you. I guess you'll grow out of it. So much else about you is fucking great.
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>>17195275
You look pretty damn familiar to someone I've met so long ago.

Not projecting names, but you just look familiar.
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>>17195301
I'm normal hight, so not has much of a childish body type that I might seem. When I wear bold lipstick I look older.
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>>17195311
Can you post another pic of your face something like the fill pic of
>>17195056
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>>17195324
Full
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>>17195311
I'm going to take "normal height" as 5'5". I suppose that's sufficient. What are some of your kinks?
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>>17195333
5'7
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>>17195275
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>>17195331
A full picture doesn't exist
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>>17195344
Similar?
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>>17195340
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>>17195337
Kinks off limit or just not going to make a list?
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>>17195275
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>>17195275
How does it feel knowing that half of you is the least desirable demographic on Earth? Even black guys don't like black girls, just ask your dad. Kek.
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>>17195358
I like dicks, being choked, being held down, and getting my face fucked. I think everyone does.
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>>17195363
>choked
How much?
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>>17195363
I wish everyone did. I think the first is the only given there. Hair pulling? Biting? Collar?
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>>17195362
American blacks are the most racist bunch I've ever had the displeasure of bumping into. Otherwise, I don't care.
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>>17195366
I don't want to die, Anon.
>>17195367
Yes, yes, I bought myself a collar for non kink reasons until I realized it was fun.
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>>17195374
Some people like light choking that's barely putting a hand there. Others like almost passing out for extra pleasure. Which one is you?
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>>17195377
Really depends how hard you mean. Morning sex, light choking. Jealousy fuck, hard choking. Obviously I know when to tap out.
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Do you get out much? If not, you are not going to get something better, it seems that you are just bothering with this guy, because someone better doesn't give interest in you.
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>>17195387
I haven't met anyone I find attractive. However, like you suggested, I don't get out much.
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>>17195395
What's attractive to you?
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>>17194942
Hmm I was in a similar situation, except my friend was a pretty good looking alpha, who somehow is a virgin for some reason idk. The thing is, I would have wanted to hook up with him, but not have a serious relationship. I kind of thought that he should lose his v-card to someone special, someone who would be his girlfriend. That's why I didn't let things escalate, and I think it's better if you don't do that either.
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>>17195363
Oh man, thid small guy fucking your face would look gorgeous.
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>>17195395
You like someone with confidence right? I saw you mentioned this guy was soft spoken and shy.
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>>17195374
>>17195384
You are failing to disinterest me and it's far too late, hard choking for you.

When I was a virgin dating a my first girlfriend, I bit her lip too hard and it swole up and I looked like an abusive boyfriend. We were not in private. :(
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>>17195398
Tall, dark hair, white skin, dominant, and reasonably intelligent.
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>>17195400
He was good looking, but didn't risk in being sexual to a woman, I don't think he was alpha.
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>>17195406
That's why I wouldn't date him
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>>17195416
Keep dreaming and whining about a lack of attention. Or get some prime beta dick to fuck your face.
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>>17195446
Okay anon
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>>17195400
Why didn't you want a relationship with him?
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>>17195450
Too beta, I'd break him.
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>>17195275
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>>17195457
You should charge your phone
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>>17195456
You said he was alpha.
What was he beta about?
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>>17195480
I never said he was alpha, you might be getting me confused with another anon.
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>>17195480
Never mind anon I made a mistake, carry on.

I'm going to go fap or something
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>>17195494
>>17195486
Who are you, op?
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>>17195374
Spanking? Caning, etc.? Add a leash? Handcuffs? Rope?
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>>17195499
Definitely don't want to get cained, thanks. Everything else on the list is fine
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>>17195494
You wont be alone in that. Fairly confident that satisfies you as well.
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>>17195494
>go fap
Post pics
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>>17195513
Not the game I play, senpai.
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>>17195519
What's your game?
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>>17195527
Advice, initially. Then things got weird.
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>>17195519
Don't need to post anything you'd regret. Wet fingers over panties?
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>>17195531
Funny how you respond so receptively to "weird". You're very obedient as well.
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>>17195534
I decline.

Goodnight, anons. Thanks for your help everyone.
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>>17195539
Night fellow kinkster, enjoy your fap. May we both find a local deviant to satisfy us.
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>>17194942
If it weren't for a girl like you, I'd still be a virgin. Please do this for him.
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>>17194997

You don't think so, do you?

What an insightful life YOU must lead - is that why you lurk /adv/?
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He likes you.
You do not like him.

Why would you even consider fucking him?

Don't cuck the poor bastard.
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>>17195457
What music player are you using?
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>>17195275
Hahahahaha holy shit you're a fucking 5

Stop trying to sell yourself cunt
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>>17196970
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>>17195275
women like this have beta orbiters jesus christ
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>>17197027
This hasn't been an issue until now. The last person to show interest in me was a 40 something year old man that I had no problem rejecting.
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>>17197027
Men are pathetic. That's why womwn can get away with a lot of shit.
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>>17195102

>Was

Wait, so he's like, dead, or is there actually a cure?
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>>17196922
iOS
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>>17197404
I told him to back down.
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