I've been thinking of dumping my girlfriend, I'm 20 and we've been together for 3 years now.
I live at my mom's house, she sleeps here often. We have sex loudly when no one is home, as well as quietly at night if possible. There's not too much I can do about it.
Tonight she told me she didn't have a condom and she didn't want to give head, so I would have to masturbate. When we get in bed she surprises me with a condom, we start kissing.
I start kissing her and playing with her breasts, she tells me to stop because I'm tickling her. I kiss her and play with her until I put the condom on - then I move on top of her to start doing missionary. She wants the blankets pulled up over us, so I have to try to pull them up.
I can't figure out the way the blankets go, and she gets irritated and has this dumb fucking frown on her face like I'm retarded. I get the blankets right but by then I'm flaccid again.
I start kissing her and she's irritated, we work up again and I get hard. She goes to guide me in because of the odd angling, and loudly says "move back a little, it's not in." This puts me on edge a little because of how loud she said it. We start to have sex but she is acting off, and I'm feeling anxious so I lose it. I eventually stop and I tell her it just isn't going to happen for me. I sit up and the condom is gone, I say it's gone. She immediately covers her face and starts crying, because she thinks it's lost inside of her.
I turn on my phone and look down, it was just on the bed so I take it and get rid of it. She's irritated and won't talk to me.
I work making 28 an hour, she doesn't work and when she does its 10 an hour in retail. I pay for everything and am her transportation. Her broke-ass family and a shit house and as of now has no water running so I'm also her place for food, laundry, and washing.
I'm just irritated. I feel like most women would respect me more, and I also feel like the "right" person would be a lot more understanding and respectful
Yeah, you both are inexperienced doofuses.
>>17190962
Why the fuck do you live with your mom if you make 28$ and hour?
>>17190989
New job as of January and it's piss easy to save money when I'm only paying 250 a month for rent.
>>17190962
Did you just have a bad night?
She shouldn't be relying on you. If she's an adult, she should be taking care of herself. You providing for her is not a justification for controlling her either.
>>17191011
When did i do that would indicate controlling?
And no she doesn't provide anything for herself, as in I transfer her money daily for food.
>>17190989
>everyones situation is the exactly the way i think it should be
fuck off retard