>Having a decent chat with a grill on whatever dating app

Close the deal faster, meet with them in person. You're boring them and they bail.

>>17187113
chad started chatting with her

>>17187113
because girls get 50x more messages than guys with online dating
she's is most likely having 5-10 conversations going on beside you and the minute you get boring she switches to the next guy who sparks her interest.

It's a competition that you're unaware of. Best tip is to close faster and get a number/meet up the moment you feel like the conversation is beyond the awkward part

>>17187135
>>17187119
>>17187133
Lel, fuck this shit then, sounds rigged as fuck and a total waste of my time. I'll stick to getting numbers and dates in person.

>>17187135
this, lad

>>17187147
You're honestly 100% better off that way. Online dating is truly the biggest fucking waste of time ever. Rarely does anything ever come out of it for the average guy. Women essentially expect you to somehow know how to entertain them without knowing them over fucking text, and if you don't pass, they start talking to someone else.

At least in person you can put your confidence, or whatever else you have going on display, and have them gobbling your dick in a few hours.

>>17187154
I've gotten dates and laid thru okcupid,tinder
but it's mainly guys fault that these avg women up their standards when they get guys out of their league messaging them to "date" that just pump and dump them.

But I agree with you best quality of women is in person.
>>17187147
if anything just use online dating as practice