Hey /adv/ femanon here,
TL;DR Is it a common thing for guys to put their hand around your throat when you're having sex with them?
I've only been with a couple of guys (and it's not always during sex either) but some of them have put hand around my neck, not choking me or anything, it's gentler than that. I didn't hate it or anything either so that was fine. But I am a bit confused, it was an automatic thing for them to do and I'm not sure why?
>>17181174
im a guy, and i have never done this because i would assume the girl would find it weird although i have often felt an urge to do it. im not sure why, must be some caveman shit that makes us feel dominant.
I'm a guy, first time I did it was because my girlfriend put my hand there. It kind of freaked me the fuck out doing it too lol.
Now it's just like whatever, I know she likes it so I do it.
I do and I really enjoy it. Never thought about it too much, though.
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>>17181211
Is it enjoyable because of dominance?
I honestly don't like the idea of being choked but having a guy out his hand there is comforting
>>17181247
*shrug* On her part, I guess yeah? She definitely prefers it and cums hardest when I'm more dominant and rough (though my own preferences run kind of opposite if I'm honest, but hey, variety is nice and all that).
>>17181174
it means you're a slut
Never done this. Never wanted to. But this specific phenomenon HAS been noted as being on the rise in recent years. I don't yet know if I would call it common, but it is certainly more common than it used to be
The people measuring this mostly blame porn.
>>17181258
Calm down vanilla bean
>>17181258
This
You should be strangled fucking whore.
>>17181300
>>17181258
why so edgy?
>>17181174
>automatic
Nope. The only automatic thing during sex is increased desire to do humping move with hips. Everything else is subjective.
So now be good girlfriend and go practice communication skill with him by asking him if he is into dom/sub play or if he is planning to murder you by asphyxiation :-D
>>17181300
>>17181258
>Cringe
>>17181356
>>17181315
You too. Pussy whipped cocksuckers.