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I couldn't get hard during my first time with a girl on the weekend. I'm not really sure why, I was pretty attracted to her but yeah. Might it ahve something to do with porn? I don't masturbate every day but I have noticed a trend where I have been getting off to kinkier and kinkier stuff. Should I go no porn? I feel like I shouldn't be having this problem at 20 years old.
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>>17169800
It could be performance anxiety/nerves. But it doesn't hurt to get off while avoiding porn. Fantasize. Yep, it's not as stimulating as porn can be. But when it comes to having sex it will make it less likely that you'll lose your erection.
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>>17169806

What can I do about anxiety and nerves for next time?
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>>17169800
I watch and fap to porn all the time but my gf still makes me diamonds.

All about anxiety man
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I went through the same thing man it's all in your head. Society says that if you can't get it up then you have a serious problem which is certainly not true, you can easily get caught up in a cycle of doubt and worry.

Try a little bit of viagra next time, you'll still get the same initial thoughts but you won't go soft. You'll eventually disassociate the fear and nervousness from having sex and won't need it.
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>>17169800
That shit's normal, just the nerves! It ll be better next time. Especially if you take your timr with someone ( like a sober sleepover).
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