Alright so soon I'm going to start university (college)

>what i want when i want.
you mean like going to parties and having sex with other girls?

>>17126784
No like making friends that I like. Not that WE like.

>>17126788

that will be an issue. you'll decide whats more important sooner or later. personally i prefer independence. especially at such a young phase in life.

>>17126790
I guess you're right

Did you choose to go to the same university?

>>17126788
Why is this an issue with you two? if she controls who you make friends with, dump her.

>>17126800
I chose my 5 and she just happened yo choose the same 5. Coincidence right?

>>17126801
She doesn't control me but she has a hard time making friends so she has to stick around me often and that always ends up in her saying she doesn't like my friends

>>17126807

do you even want to date her mate? it sounds to me like you dont. cuz if you wanted to date her you'd be like 'we sat down and discussed colleges that have good programs for the degrees we each want'. not 'SHE CHOSE MINE GAWD GIVE ME SPACE, LIKE AT LEAST 5 STATES'.

its okay to want to break up wtih her. in fact its okay to break upw ith her. you dont need any reason. saying 'we were great in highschool but its time to start our lives' is as valid as any.

even if it wasn't whats the point in staying with someone you dont want to be with out of obligation? imk not saying you hate her or cant stand her or want her out, but it sounds to me like you were looking forward to starting over like most people do and expected her to take the hint when you didnt discuss college with her.

>>17126815
I think on a deeper level you're right man. Thanks for the advice

>>17126821

i think you're rather mature for your age, at least from what i can determine from these few posts. im surprised a lot of /adv/ seems more mature and open minded this morning.

either way, think about what you really want and just remember, you dont need to stay with anyone. go meet other girls. go experiment with your sexuality. go get drunk. do it all in one night. whatever.

just you do you.

>>17126811
Don't expect her to change, if this is an issue with you then end it