I think my boyfriend might be a serial killer. We started dating

Aspergers.
Or he might be asexual.
Introverted.

He sounds like a creep though.

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>>17114675
If he was a serial killer (which he's not btw)
He would appear very charming and have a whole back story
Sorry anon, but you fell for actual autism

>>17114675
Dammit, I was expecting a box full of ears or something.

You know you don't literally mean serial killer. Why would you be so rude to sufferers of sociopathy?

>>17114675
Nah he seems like a normal dude. A dude that seems to be pretty awesome at new stuff. Better husband him up the way you asked him out, you know he won't do it first.

>>17114694
>>17114682
I thought people with autism were like Rain Man?

>>17114700
I'm not being rude! I'm just concerned, that's all.

>>17114701
Whoa whoa slow down, I'm not looking to get married just yet, I mean, I can't even convince him to have sex...

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Sociopath imo... Get him to watch American Psycho with you (or better still, read the book).

He'll identify with Bateman and start fucking you.

Be careful though, he might want to chop you up after.

>>17114718
>I'm not being rude! I'm just concerned, that's all.
You are being very rude.

What has he done to show you that he has violent and murderous tendencies? Does he like to kill small animals? Does he talk about grudges and how much he hates them? Does he seem to enjoy when others are in pain?
What motive would he have to be a multi-offence murderer?

He sounds apathetic, not dangerous.

>>17114729
So I want to have sex with a meme.
Okay.
I'm done.

>>17114675
This is awful.
If this isn't a copy pasta, 10/10, OP.

>>17114675

There is a large spectrum as to people with autism. My husband is very social at work with his work mates but by the time he gets home to me-he's pretty much used up his 'socialization energy' and I, like you, don't get taken anywhere etc.

Although, one thing you get that I don't get is that he actually goes to events you like. My husband won't. And if I go with someone else he accuses me of not wanting to be married to him.

Anyway, it's not easy being with someone with certain "quirks" and you are expressing your needs (wanting sex, or feeling wanted and wanting a man to engage with you) and I am not sure you can get them met with this type of person.

You could ask but you cannot change the core of you, ya know. You can try but to me that's it's important to be with someone who satisfies your needs, ya know at least the basic ones.

>>17114675
If you hadn't said he avoids sex I'd be paranoid you were talking about me.
Personally I can mindlessly do anything.
I have no real aspirations, but I'm going to school and working and living. I don't want to end up some hobo.
I clean my house, and do some other activities, but I don't go to clubs or pubs, movies, concerts or anything unless it's because my partner wants to. I just don't care that much about any of it. I enjoy the solitary things I do.
It doesn't mean I'm a serial killer, just a sociopath.

>>17114675
He's a good husband material, that's what i think. One cant fulfill every role and you must know his intention towards his relationship with you.
I think it's good to talk it out, about his intentions, and ur desires, and see if both your intentions can meet at a point.
If it's too much hassle, just leave him, but without expecting him to go back to you

>>17114675
He's a good husband material, that's what i think. One cant fulfill every role and you must know his intention towards his relationship with you.
I think it's good to talk it out, about his intentions, and ur desires, and see if both your intentions can meet at a point.
If it's too much hassle, just leave him, but without expecting him to go back to you

>>17114675
>He doesn't want to have sex, which I find highly disturbing.

keked.

She fell for the "all men just wan' one thing" meme that middle-aged feminazi hamplanet ogres spread.

Literally, when we want sex it's a bad thing, when we don't... it's also a bad thing and highly "distrubing".

How do you not see this is the problem?
It's called learned helplessness, and it's caused by getting shit on no matter what you do - you eventually learn not to try.

And it's a growing epidemic amongst men.

I mean, we're in the shit anyway, the only difference is how much effort we put in. We can be efficiently shit on by not making a move, and therefore wasting less effort.

Simple.

Last woman screwed with me..

I killed her with an explosion.

>>17114675
He just sounds autistic. He's the perfect match for you.

>>17114675
Have you tried talking to him about this? Seeing if you can get him to engage with or discover his own interests?

He most likely will have them, and if you've not been introduced to them, they may be weird/normal for 4chan and more likely than not, solo activities.

And it sounds like he has Aspergers. Be glad you've landed one of the good ones who are fairly moldable and not some sperg who can't stop telling you about his collection of Taiwanese underpants.

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>>17114675
He sounds like a perfectly normal, healthy INTJ to me. In fact, he almost reminds me of myself, except I'm slightly less autistic.

http://intjcentral.com/the-compleat-idiots-guide-to-the-intj/

I could offer actual advice but I'm 50/50 on whether this is a fake post or not.

>>17114902
>It doesn't mean I'm a serial killer, just a sociopath.
Actually, this is edgelord bullshit. You don't self diagnose anti-social personality disorder. It's something that only an experienced criminal psychologist can diagnose. You don't want to hear this, because it spoils your edgy thrill of thinking you're a sociopath, but you're actually just describing symptoms of depression.

>>17114902
It also gave me the creeps, however i'm more of a schizoid than a sociopath.

>>17114675
Op, you should really look into this and more personality disorders. Here's a very interesting article at Wikipedia that explains what the schizoid looks like:
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schizoid_personality_disorder

Some schizoids aren't really into sex, although I am. From what you've told us, I strongly believe your bf is one of them.

>Doesn't care about anything
>Won't go anywhere unless people take him
>Thinks people would be better off without him
>No libido
Sounds like depression.

>>17115006
Sounds like me, I don't have plans to do anything, but I'll go anywhere if someone takes me, I don't have depression, I just enjoy staying at home.

I think a person with depression would sometimes refuse to go out.

>>17114971
Or a high-openness, high-conscientiousness, low-extraversion, low-agreeableness, low-neuroticism type.

>>17114675
maybe he´s just gay

>>17115006
that describes me, except I jerk off everyday

>>17115006
this

>>17114675
He's not a serial killer, leave him alone and if you dont want him stop wasting your and your time so he can do what he wants.

>>17114694
And to add to this he would be mutilating toys as a child and as well as harming pets or animals

>>17114910
lmfao the projection is on a whole 'nother level here
stop acting like both men and women dont like sex, everyone likes sex except for a few faggots like OP's bf and probably you

fucking lol at 'epidemic'

>>17114718
No, most peope with autism are just socially inept. He's obviously just an autistic person that has had enough support and help to function in a social environment.

>>17114736
I mean he is a pretty attractive dude, to be honest.

>>17114740
Fucking kek this

I was waiting for something crazy and this is just banal normie shit

OP just show him some hentais and inject marijuanas to get the night going

All these people saying autistic, id be willing to bet he is a sociopath. Not a serial killer

maybe he is autistic, schizophrenic or something like that. i dont think he is sociopath

>>17117318
but he does do shit. you just said that he works out and does a lot of shit you want him to do and keeps his place clean.

I think maybe you need to take more of an interest in him instead of taking him to things. what does he like doing? do you know? I guarantee its not nothing. may not be going out to bars or some shit but I guarantee its not nothing. that said, he may already know you will have zero interest or think you have zero interest. so talk to him, have you tried?

also the fuck is your problem calling your man a serial killer with absolutely no indication of any sort of actual issue? thats a big thing to call someone and seeing as how he's obviously not, highly disrespectful. just saying. and you called him a human furby. maybe he picks up on that disrespect? I'd keep you at a distance for sure if that wasn't our paradigm and it wasn't just playful sort of sarcastic witticism. even then, that shit gets old. do you act toward him like you think he's a serial killer?

maybe he's just found serenity in the life he has so he's just doing what he does and nothing more cause he's comfortable that way and you are already providing variety from the norm with all the stuff you want him to do.

maybe he doesn't check out other girls because you are his girl. I'm like that. if I'm happy in a relationship I just don't feel a need to look at other women. I mean I'll still look at porn maybe but even that I kinda lose interest in if I'm happy.

maybe he's a virgin and doesn't know how to initiate sex. doesn't mean he doesn't want to. I got soooooo many hard ons from my first gf. you have no idea. we'd hug and I'd have to fight my boner cause I wasn't sure what the hell to do or if she would get creeped out. I was convinced that i was creeping her out like every time it happened and fell like a massive idiot because she never like acknowledged it or like progressed anything... thought she was pretending it didn't happen. young, stupid, embarrassing times.

>>17117367
brings me to my last point. walking in on someone going to the bathroom is not a way to initiate sex. I've never been peeing and also been horny or wanting a girl to come on to me at that particular time. much less when going number 2. maybe try sending a more direct message. wear something sexy, or just surprise him with being naked. start making out and just touch him more sensually or get him to touch you. I think you get the message, yeah? no more walking in on people in the bathroom to initiate sexy times, k. please. just no.

>>17117367
i am not op

>>17117407
did not mean to link. just clicked your post to get quick reply box.

maybe he just has low self esteem, or thinks you are too good for him.
maybe he is depressed
maybe both

OP's bf sounds a lot like me.

He sounds like he's either socially inept, socially awkward or he's just autistic. I think that the reason he doesn't want to attend events or even look at hot girls is his fear of the judgement from other people because he believes that others judge him just as fast and harshly he judges others.

Tldr: He might be autistic