Girlfriend was upset at her mom and was talking to me about it.

Holy fuck tell her to fuck off. Selfish bitch doesn't even understand you have to finish homework and then she calls you back threatening to cheat? Bitch has brain problems, who would want to stay with that?

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>>17114548
She never changed, she just temporarily changed her behavior. People don't actually change. Either she's looking to replace you or she's looking to manipulate you.

Sounds like a manipulative bitch to me OP. I'd drop her.

>>17114554

It's my first ever relationship... She used to drain me when she did this before but I was really infatuated. Over time I got tired of it so I just started ignoring the fuck out of her.

I feel like shit right now. It was going so good and I thought she wasn't crazy anymore.

>>17114559

She's just looking to manipulate me. I feel like dropping her so bad right now but for some reason I just can't.. Two whole years + I lost all my friends. I literally have nobody to be there for me. she actually does care about me she just goes through these phases

>>17114594
Hey OP.

This girl is a very good experiential example of an "early girlfriend in which you are glad you did not stay with"

I don't know you, and I don't know her, but from what you have told me, she is immature and is relying on you far too much, but more importantly, she is relying on her control over you, far too much.

She is being manipulative and cruel, basically threatening infidelity when you only need time to yourself.

This is not wife material. This is experience material. Take the good and cherish it, remember the bad and avoid it.

>>17114623
Pretty much this, OP. Relationships like this are what make you better equipped for future relationships and give you some funny stories to tell.

>>17114623
>>17114629

Thanks anons. What should I do? Like I said earlier. The only friends I have know her and she'll probably hang out with them after we break up so I have no friends whatsoever. Ever since I got to college I've been losing more and more friends. I have some people that I hang out with that we both know (she met them through me) but I'm not even close to them.. I feel really lonely already with her being there, let alone her not being there.

There's obviously much more to my problems than her... But where do I even start?

>>17114594
I get that dude, I really do. Here's the thing though: will you cut your losses at 2 years, or will you keep wasting time and missing connections longer now that you know the right course of action?

This behavior won't ever stop, it's ingrained.

>>17114634
That's an excellent question.

In my experience, during a breakup, friends will be loyal to one of two parties;

1. The Right Party, a.k.a (You)
2. The "Wants to get laid" Party

Sometimes a breakup is what some people need to show them who their real friends are. A friend who holds his buds ex-gf in a higher regard than his buddy, is no friend at all.

Just tell you buddies straight. Tell them, "hey me and so and so are braking up, so if you want to hang out with her that's fine, but I don't want to be around it so let me know now" sort of thing.

Of course if they aren't great friends to begin with, then don't waste your time. mouth-breathers tend to be tools an ex girlfriend will use against you to get close to you. (if you slingin that good dick)

Damn I rambled.

The problem with emotionally inept guys is that they turn normal girls into crazy ones.
What you did was stupid, not enough for her to be a dickhead but nonetheless, it was insensitive and stupid.

You should break up with her because she is needy and needs someone who is more willing to give her princess treatment.