My girlfriend isn't sexy. I find her attractive, but I don't

yeah, you're missing your own projections and conveniently categorizing women to feed those projections. Dump you girlfriend dip shit.

No, some girls just aren't like that. There's nothing wrong with it really. Plenty of sexy girls aren't slutty and plenty of "good girls" act like total cunts. If your girlfriend's only disappointing quality is her lack of sexiness, I think you should count your blessings and just get her liquored up one night. That might help.

>>16996291
I think he's just out of the honeymoon phase now to be honest. He needs to either dump her or if he loves her then their love will mature into something deeper. If it doesn't then they probably just aren't meant to be.

Not really, what happened is that you're probably still under the impression that what your parents or disney movies said was the truth.

The reality is that the best of women will try to find the best of men which, unfortunately, isn't you.

Same goes for men, they will be obviously take advantage of their looks if they could AND knew how to.

>>16996296
The devil's nectar never helped anyone. Watered down ale was useful in the middle ages because the alcohol killed of the bacteria in the water, but other than that it's just a drug like any other.

>>16996282
yes. a womans sex drive lasts all day. so if you want her horny at night you have to start with saying sexy things in the morning and all day. even those little chores you do sure they seem like mundane busy work to you but to her its sexy when a man does it instead.

>find her attractive
>don't find her sexy

Jesus, dude.

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>>16996282

>talking to a 14 year old boy

and yet you're NOT turned on?

>>16996282
Just get a slut then dude. Don't waste this poor girl's time anymore

>>16996291
First post best post.

>>16996369
What?>>16996412
I don't want a slut. Want a nice girl who's also sexy.

>>16996282

What is sexy is based on your own perceptions. If you only find pornstars sexy, you probably need to convince her to slather herself with oil, wear lingerie and then you need to look at her from weird angles while there's some sort of bad electronic music in the background.

On a more serious note, finding your girlfriend sexy is a question of actual sex. If you have really good sex with your girlfriend, if you truly enjoy her body, touching it and feeling it, and if you enjoy the faces and sounds she makes, then you will find her sexy. That doesn't depend on her making banter or flirting, or doing some sort of other movie-esque bullshit for your entertainment. My ex could have worn something completely unappealing, have had a sleepy face and messed up hair, and I still would have found her sexy, because I know. I experienced it.

She's kind of come out of her shell now, we're not all the way there yet, but she's definitely more sexy now, than the kind of wooden plank she was before, hope this helps.

>>16996282
IMO, some girls are sexy, good bodies, nice personality, but not slutty. They exist. Sometimes, there is no sexual chemistry. It can be a genetic mismatch between the two of you, or it can be that you don't like her body or personality.

I suggest you ask her a bunch of questions about sex.
>Do you like sex in general?
>How often you get turned on?
>What do you fantasize about?
>What do you think guys like?
>What do you think I like?
>How are you different from other girls?
>How would you rate yourself?
>Why do you think people have sex?
>What messages were you given about sex when growing up?
>Were you ever molested or anything?

Etc. Try to psychoanalyze her and get her to open up. She might not feel comfortable being sexual for whatever reason. She feels awkward and wants it to end, and it transfers to you. Or maybe she wants you to take control or something, because she's been taught that way.

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>>16996476
Pfft. Keep convincing yourself that those sexual traits of hers' aren't suited to pornstar standards when the two of you want your dick inside of her.
And when she sends you nudes, send them to us. /b/ is waiting

>>16996298
This. durrr mah gurl dosn't look lak da one in da pictiurs. ..

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OP has a Madonna-Whore complex and learned everything he knows about men and women from TV.

>I don't want to pornfuck her black-and-blue every single time I look at her, must be no attraction herp derp

>Women come Wife-Slut-Unfuckable flavors, obviously she's just the wrong one for me right now hurr durr