Where do I meet girls? I don't need to know how to talk

>>16992176
Any situation could be a chance. Every situation is different. Just don't be autistic and try to hit on chicks at like funerals and shit.

>>16992179
>not hitting on chicks when they're the most vulnerable
nigga you serious?

>>16992188
If you wanna be scummy then sure. Go for it. It takes all kinds I guess.

>>16992176

anywhere you want to. the law does not say you can or cannot talk to soemone somewhere. a lot of women complain about being hit on in certain scenarios. a lot of women complain about being hit on in the opposite scenarios. if you surveyed the entire american populace of girls between ages 18-25 and made it illegal to approach women in any context that at least 50 thousand women deem innapropriate, then it would be 100% illegal to talk to women at all.

and despite these rules, many women often meet their boyfriends in situations they'd normally complain about.

the truth is, most of these rules are only for ugly guys, or even just guys they find unattractive (even if they are objectively attractive). the point is that if a girl looks interesting to you, you should at the very least try to talk to her.

first and foremost, if you want the BEST advice I need the following
>a recent and decent photo of you
>a list of things you enjoy doing alone
>a list of things you enjoy doing with friends

why? not all men are created equal. or even similar. depending on how you look and what you do, you can take different approaches to getting women. the more we know about you specifically, the more we can help, and the more advice we can give to up your chances with small changes.

if you cant provide that, there isnt much we can do to help, but ill drop some copy pastable advice that other anons have been responding to.

>>16992207
>dont just hit on a woman

its no secret that women are the ones who are approached, and they make decisions on which men to keep in their lives. that being said, desperately drooling over each and every girl as if they are a potential love interest is silly.

give yourself more value by not letting a woman sway you on first impressions alone. before you ever begin to say anything remotely flirtatious, talk to the girl. see what she actually acts like when you interact with her. have a normal conversation. if there isnt anything special there beyond her looks, friendzone her. or simply stop talking to her. you do not need to hit on each and every girl that looks good enough to be your partner.

doing this gives you more value, and the psychological effects are great. in addition, women will take you more seriously. instead of being 1 of 500 men in new york who went straight for the kill, you took the time to get to know them. whether it goes anywhere or not, this approach also just gives you practice talking to girls in a casual context. its less pressure than trying to impress them.
they are not goddesses. they are not score keepers. most of the women you see you will never ever have to see again if you dont want to. men are not judged by the number of women who reject them cuz even chads get turned down every fucking day. no one besides you knows what happens, so why does it matter?

>>16992209
>only ever use dating apps as a supplement to your real life dating.

dating apps are toxic. consider the following
>people use dating apps because they arent having much luck in real life
>they go to a dating app where they are introduced to an entire smorgasbord of men who want nothing more than to bang and/or date them
>after just one day they will have seen everyone in their area
>within one week they would have talked to everyone they are interested in

so anyone who has been using the app for more than a few weeks clearly has some sort of issue. likely, they are the female equivelent of what i discussed in my first post.

they want a 'bf' but because they have a very specific idea of what a bf is, they arent finding it anywhere. instead of seeing if they have real chemistry, they are simply walking down the aisle, trying to figure out what is the ONE thing at the groccery store they can buy, based solely on pictures and labels.

if a woman is on tinder for too long, they are losing their ability to feel chemistry.

you as a man can fall into a very similar pattern here, but with the added harshness of constant rejection.

it is an app made for people who want to date, yet no one seems to have success there for very long. that should tell you something.

No guys I mean if I just get in my car right now and drive into town without just approaching a complete stranger off the sidewalk or something

>>16992215

that was my next post:

>but anon, how do i use it as a supplement to an existing dating life if i dont have a dating life.

effort. lots and lots of effort. and also, doing what you like. going out is in no way restricted to bars and clubs, though if that is what you enjoy, by all means, go to bars and clubs.

the truest way to find chemistry is to experience your life in the most enjoyable way, and see how you match with the people who come into it. interacting with someone in a casual way shows you how you ACTUALLY get along, not how you hope to get along cuz you really want this to work cuz you need a gf.

so write down a list of all your hobbies, and find a way to externalize them. most people live at least near a city these days.

go to any and all hobby shops and ask about local events. gun shops might have hunting trips. or you can just go to a shooting range. comic book stores have game nights. or live commentary movie nights. if these shops do not host events, offer to host one through them, after all it will only lead to more money through them.

you can even go to a more casual store, lets say, a book store, and stand in your favorite aisle (lets say, horror). talk to everyone who comes by looking for a book. ask what book they are looking for. tell them what book you are looking at. try to spark a conversation abotu your favorite author. maybe take some suggestions. if you really hit it off, try to trade numbers.

its okay if it doesnt pan out. this isnt a scoring system. there is no man in a cloack in space making down on a cosmic chalkboard how many failed conversations you had. 99% of interaction is dumb. you are waiting for the 1% and enjoying talking about your favorite things with strangers until then.

>>16992222
>for. tell them what book you are looking at. try to spark a conversation abotu your favorite author. maybe take some sugges


>but anon, going outside somewhere to find out if maybe they have an event doesnt suit my lazy lifestyle!!1!

and for those who simply cannot bring themselves to get up out of the house without a guarantee go to meetup.com and look for something of your interest. no matter what your interest it is on there in a group you can meet with. and if not, you can start your own meet up.

Now, some of you may argue that these sorts of tailored events are attended mostly by men. yes. mostly. but some women too. whats important here is you will be doing something you love, with people who love what you love, and when the right ladies come along you'll know they love it too. you will have that common ground.

>>16992228
I don't want online dating shit just an opportunity to get like 3 sentences in without just randomly approaching them

>>16992234

like i said:
>>16992228
>>16992222

i literally outline what to do here.

>>16992234
>online dating

My best friend and his girlfriend have been together 8 years now. They met online. Not saying all is lost, it's super rare of success but its not all bad.

Both of them are pretty shy/personal people. They're perfect for each other. Dating sites/social media is what you make of it though. It'll take a while longer than just going out and about but most people out and about aren't people you want to be with. Unless you're going to a place that you have interests or a hobby towards, that might be the only way to effectively meet someone