A fresh topic.
Love.
There is this pretty attractive girl I work with, Japanese actually.
I'm pretty good fiends with her. We talk about alot of stuff. A while back I told her I had a crush on her. She didn't seem to like me, but didn't mind I had a crush. It's been a few months and I've told her a few times about my feelings. This last time though, I asked if I ever had a chance with her, she said probably but she didn't want to date anyone right now. I'm still unsure if she looks at me that way, but I feel like I like her ever more now. I'm just waiting at this point. What would be a nice way to get her to like me?
>>16991756
You can't really get someone to like you. It's kind of a meaningless phrase. They either will or they won't. That's it. Just don't be a dick, and turn up the flirt, but respect her boundaries. Being funny helps too.
>>16991756
>get her to like me
That isn't how it works, real life isn't a romantic comedy.
Try to get over her, she's not into you. "Probably" was her being nice.
>>16991769
Sigh, I know. I know exactly. Well, worth a try I gues.
>>16991760
I'll keep doing this. I'll give it time, if it looks like ill never succeeded, I'll give up.
>>16991827
I don't think she's into you man, she would have been with you after the first time you told her. You and I both know the truth, at this point just try to minimize pain if you are really in love
>>16991835
I know.. it's just going to hurt later. I have this tiny light that thinks that maybe I can't get with her..