m 18 and have been in a relationship for nearly a year. Sexually

She's young and foolish. That being said you likely won't change her mind.

My ex said she'd keep it but would give it away..

I really wish there was a birth control for men. (Besides condoms)

>>16991291
We've never had "unprotected sex" but obviously condoms still have a fail rate. It's a chance I'd rather wasn't there.

>>16991296
If look up the stats for pregnancy even trying to get pregnant takes time.

That being said I feel your concerns, it would completely fuck up your life. Likewise another girl could say she would get rid of it (if/when) and then end up keeping it.

>>16991316
Yeah I get what you mean, but it would be better knowing she might get rid of it, and not definitely want to keep it.

While it would be very painful, I think bringing the relationship to an end would be the correct thing to do. You wouldn't go to a casino and place 100 000$ on a random bet, yet being financially responsible for a child you don't want is worse than a 100 000$ debt. You are 18 years old. You have your whole life ahead of you. You shouldn't gamble it for an handful of orgasms.

>>16991367
That's my main concern, is that I throw my life away. I said the same thing to my girlfriend and she said it would just put our lives on a different path, but I totally disagree. I plan on joining the RAF, and she doesn't like that idea, so I don't think she cares if it ruins my career aspirations. I get your metaphor as well. I feel like it is a huge gamble.