I don't have much of a libido, but I still don't want

>implying Victorians weren't totally freaky
>implying you wouldn't get cucked by your wife's doctor

Anyway I'm a pretty frigid woman, but I also don't want kids. Can't help you anon.

>>16987357
Some of them could have been freaky, but the general social attitude was very accommodating to what I would prefer in my married life.

Find yourself a religious girl. Go to a liberal church so the girl won't be too disappointed that you don't love Jesus

>>16987667
Unfortunately, a religious liberal girl will also be liberal about sex.

OP, are you a virgin? You might find that your sex drive will increase once you are with a girl and dating her.

why don't you find a same-sex platonic life partner (roommate) instead, and just occasionally fuck some chick when you feel the need?

Why can't you just eat her out and use your hands if your penis isn't feeling up to it?

>>16987361
maybe it was what they pretended but it wasn't the reality of things

and therein lies your solution, you find a partner who has the courtesy to cover their tracks to let you believe they're being faithful and you turn a blind eye to their infidelity.

>>16988230
How do you know?

maybe try and find an asexual woman online, who's not into sex but some still want to have children

>>16988516
This. There's bound to be asexual women (or women with so little of a libido that they identify more with asexuals than with everyday folks) in the same position, who are wondering how to start a family. Spread the word on the communities.

However your message makes it sound like you are not looking for any kind of partner and just want to be with someone to do their part of your shared responsibilities and make you look normal for the outside world. If this is the case, you need something more specific as you would just make a woman with no interest in sex but interest in love very unhappy.

>>16987352
Victorians weren't about "no sex ever, just have kids" you nerd, they just wanted to uphold a good set of morals and dignity with respect to private matters
Married couples still banged all the time for fun
>>16988532
>Spread the word on the communities.
Where you find communities like this?

>>16988549
It's not that hard, just googling I found asexual dating sites, a forum from experienceproject where people share stories etc... They seek each other out. Once you are within a nice community you can always ask for inside tips on the best places to look for a partner or whatever.

>wants a wife
>doesn't wanna do the whole sex thing

Just get a girl from a poor country and offer her a place to stay in exchange for taking care of your children