So let's say you're a sperg NEET in his early twenties.

Try stuff that other people do just for the sake of having tried it.

>>16973661
I don't know man.
I bet people would say just do it, but there are 2 outcomes, you sperg out and everyone starts ignoring you, or they just feel sorry for you so they let you hang in the group as an outsider. Try to find people with your interests, hobbies, humor.

Are you a literal retard or do you just feel that way?

If you are the latter then don't worry about it, make new friends at wherever you go regularly or hook up with old friends if you have any. Make contact with their friends and increase your network. It will take time but its not that hard.

But if you are a legit retard then tough luck kid, people are fucking shallow. You're better off alone wanking in your room.

>>16973661
effort. lots and lots of effort. and also, doing what you like. going out is in no way restricted to bars and clubs, though if that is what you enjoy, by all means, go to bars and clubs.

the truest way to find chemistry is to experience your life in the most enjoyable way, and see how you match with the people who come into it. interacting with someone in a casual way shows you how you ACTUALLY get along, not how you hope to get along cuz you really want this to work cuz you need a gf.

so write down a list of all your hobbies, and find a way to externalize them. most people live at least near a city these days.

go to any and all hobby shops and ask about local events. gun shops might have hunting trips. or you can just go to a shooting range. comic book stores have game nights. or live commentary movie nights. if these shops do not host events, offer to host one through them, after all it will only lead to more money through them.

you can even go to a more casual store, lets say, a book store, and stand in your favorite aisle (lets say, horror). talk to everyone who comes by looking for a book. ask what book they are looking for. tell them what book you are looking at. try to spark a conversation abotu your favorite author. maybe take some suggestions. if you really hit it off, try to trade numbers.

its okay if it doesnt pan out. this isnt a scoring system. there is no man in a cloack in space making down on a cosmic chalkboard how many failed conversations you had. 99% of interaction is dumb. you are waiting for the 1% and enjoying talking about your favorite things with strangers until then.

>>16973718
>but anon, going outside somewhere to find out if maybe they have an event doesnt suit my lazy lifestyle!!1!

and for those who simply cannot bring themselves to get up out of the house without a guarantee go to meetup.com and look for something of your interest. no matter what your interest it is on there in a group you can meet with. and if not, you can start your own meet up.

Now, some of you may argue that these sorts of tailored events are attended mostly by men. yes. mostly. but some women too. whats important here is you will be doing something you love, with people who love what you love, and when the right ladies come along you'll know they love it too. you will have that common ground.

>>16973714
>at wherever you go regularly

But I don't go anywhere regularly. I only go outside to buy food, and that's about it.
I tried going to a club which shared my interests but the people there only socialized among themselves ignoring the newcomers.

>>16973724
Then you need to stop being inside your house all the time and go to coffee shops or bars regularly or even gun shops if you fancy it like >>16973718
said, even if you're alone. You will certainly meet other regulars or even the shopkeepers/bartenders. You can start by small talks about current news, local events etc.

it doesn't even matter if you are good looking or not. Just go somewhere and talk to people. You'll make a new friend in no time.

hell, you can even go to AA and pretend you're recovering to meet new people. They don't judge.

Good luck anon.

Get a job.

It forces you have friends basically.

Try fast food for fast results.

>>16973748
>Just go somewhere and talk to people.

But what do I talk about with them? I can't just force myself to engage in superficial small talk - not only am I very bad at it, but it also won't really create a social bond.

>>16974165
People misinterpret this.

Just go about your usual schedule and make a point to say hi to people you see and be friendly.