This girl has been sending me nudes and wants to have sex with

It is normal. When you're horny you want to fuck anything you're sexually attracted to, even that girl you don't actually like, but since she's available and tells you she is, you'll just do it because yolo.
Since you're asking this, I assume you're quite young, so be careful. Don't do anything you'll regret later. If you feel disgusted after having fapped to her, maybe you'll just act out of horniness rather than actually liking her.
Although it will also be an experience, so you can also do it and have fun.
Just be careful.

>>16960082
I also think deep down I'd rather be in a relationship than just have sex. And this girl is a bit on the wacky side and I wouldn't wanna be in a relationship with her. However, she is pretty forward about sex with me. I am just wondering if I should dive in head first despite knowing what I really want, or should I avoid this all together?

Use a condom. Don't trust that she's on bc

>>16960052
Personally, I wanted a relationship before sex. I wanted to be with someone I care about. Was it really smart to wait until I was 31 and met my spouse? Maybe not.... But all my experience is with someone I'm passionate about (even now, 5 years later). Think carefully and decide what decision you want to live with.

Do it, and always use a condom.

Why not? Don't fall for this "waiting for the right person" bullshit. You'll meet someone you'll want to be in a relationship with down the road, but until then you should enjoy your life and do whatever you want, or you'll regret not doing it later.

I could have had sex with many girls and turned all the opportunities down because i wanted to wait for someone i loved and here i am, broken hearted, depressed and still virgin.

>>16960099
were you ever tempted to give up on that view? how did you fight that temptaion

>>16960171
I'm a religious nut. Lol. Idk it worked for me, but doesn't work well for most people. I'm shy, studious, family oriented. Tbh, I'm not sure I'd recommend it. I'm happy with my life, but I sometimes wish I had a history. My husband had relationships before me and I have...nothing.

I don't think celibacy is a good option unless it's religious.

>>16960171
>>16960199


31 here as well, married for several years happily. I had sex before marriage, and I'd say overall it detracted from the married relationship. Gave me unfair expectations of her, gave her raging insecurity (even though I swear I did my 100% best to hide my expectations), and gave me kinks and desires that I had to let go of.

That and the porn. If you can wait until you get married, it's ideal.

Another thing im afraid of is that I'll feel this way in a genuine relationship. Physical intimacy is something im afraid of because of how I feel currently after I fap. I just wanna curl up in a ball for like 10 mintues afterward, push the thoughts out of my head about that girl, and then i'm back to normal. I'm afraid of being in a relationship because the natural progression is to be physically intimate at some point adn I'm worried I'll continue tohave these feelings.

bump. would appreciate some advice with regards to relationships