>Woke up an hour ago, sitting in front of computer, urge to fap appears
>Did it three times yesterday, wasn't really that great, mostly just felt tired afterwards
>Meeting long-distance fwb in a week (we see each other 1-2 times a month), want to be able to cum from her handjobs/blowjobs this time, ego takes a hit when I can't and I'm pretty sure it doesn't make her feel great either
>Been telling myself "Alright, not gonna fap today" for four days now
Anyone else dealing with this shit?
Nah. I just fapped every time I received the urge. You grow out of it after a while. I do it once every few days or weeks or so. Just fuck her until you cum. That's really all there is to it. You gain sex experience as well
Fapping can be a serious drain on life. If you do it too much it can stop feeling good, even, and just make you tired constantly.
Best solution is to get a hobby, whenever I get the urge to fap I just play videogames like the loser I am and stop browsing 4chinks for a little bit until I stop being horny.
>>16958906
No problem cumming while fucking her, but when girls (it's not just her, been like this with everyone) become reluctant to give handjobs/blowjobs because I never cum from them and usually don't even stay fully erect during them, it feels bad man.
Also, "once every few days or weeks or so" sounds a lot more reasonable than my habits. We're talking 15 times a week, at least.
>>16958916
Ahhhh I remember those days
>>16958910
The hobby thing is probably a good idea, I usually get the urge when I'm bored rather than horny, another bad sign I guess. Videogames don't always work though, I've literally taken a break while doing daily quests and stuff (don't play WoW kids, it's cancer) just to have a fap and then continue playing afterwards.