I had a first date in a bar with a guy from Tinder, thought I'd have a few beers and then head home. But then he says he doesn't have the money for more beer but he has rum and coke at his place and asked if I wanted to come with. Idiot that I was, I agreed.
Now, my tolerance for stronger drinks is very poor. Also, I often start insulting people out of nowhere and generally being an aggressive dick when too drunk. Yeah... I quickly got roaring drunk and kept asking him the same question over and over again. I don't remember everything, but I kept asking if he was looking for a one-night stand, even after he told me a million times he wasn't. I kept asking if he's an autist (ouch). I bit his piercing and probably did some other godawful things I can't remember.
To top it all off, I dozed in his bed till 5PM the next day since I was too hungover and hungry to leave. He did come lie next to me and we had sex for a bit in the afternoon, but later he got kinda pissed when I wasn't leaving. He didn't talk to much during the day and seemed kinda angry, maybe? I don't know.
I messaged him to apologize and tell him I don't usually pull this kind of shit. I realize that I was really, really shitty and he'd be justified if he never wanted to see me again.
Just, I liked him and we had fun for a while. Can I still salvage this and get to know him better, and show him I'm not as insane as I seemed?
>>16953396
id move on
Woah, what a mess.
Cut your ties.
>>16953396
You should seriously contemplate your life and the choices you make in it.
Promiscuity is frowned upon for a reason.
>>16953430
You should do some serious thinking about your judgmental ways. Jesus.
>>16953396
Are you a homofag?
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>>16953435
>Deep inside I know that fucking random guys is degenerate but I ring the "ur a judgemental slut shamer" bell so I can feel better about my pathetic existence on this planet
>>16953430
I don't think promiscuity was the issue here, though, but my behaviour. And I know I should contemplate on that.
>>16953447
If you weren't a promiscuous slut to begin with you wouldn't have had that ordeal, now would you? Next time try to have sex with a man that you genuinely like, for the right reasons, instead of "I'm bored because I have no hobbies and seek confirmation by putting out"
>>16953452
You're ridiculous. I did genuinely like the guy, and nowhere did I say I'm seeking confirmation or that I don't have any hobbies, which I do. (What did you think we talked about in the bar? Mutual hobbies, of course.) And I made it clear that I'm not interested in a one-night stand. If I was, I wouldn't even be thinking about him anymore. So that kinda defeats your point right there.