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How do I stop relying on others to feel content?
I have few friends, and a girl I'm sweet on. The friends and girl I only see during+inbetween classes for the most part and the girl I ask out every now and then, but aside from that I only ever hear from them if I hit them up myself. I can't always keep going on like that. I run out of things to say, but if I don't say anything I won't hear anything.
After a few days it makes me feel lonely and depressed. Everything feels like a chore and I can't get any shit done. Eventually I'll just dive into the texting app to update my last-seen time and see how social they are (always regularly updating and very recent). Yet in that one moment that my phone/text app does ring, it all vanishes. That barely happens, though.
I know it's bad to be so dependent, and if it got out to them I'd probably become even lonelier. How do I get over it? I don't have the time, space or money to pick up shit to keep my mind occupied (and it drifted off anyway with what I'd tried), so what else works?
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>How do I stop relying on others to feel content?
I don't think that's something anyone (maybe a therapist, but I doubt it) can help you with. You just have to find your own happiness.
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