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I apologize if this topic isn't safe for work. I won't be posting any nsfw images. The porn boards are also not the best places for discussion or advice.

Is there a healthy and relatively normal way to give up certain fetishes? I have a few that make me feel like crap whenever I watch some porn with them in it. And not in that way which makes submissive people feel lovely. Just like crap.

So I'm wondering if I can give up these fetishes that I see as damaging in my life, without doing further damage. There are all sorts of resources on the internet about fetishes and telling you they're normal, and I totally understand that. But I'm not enjoying these fetishes. I do have fetishes that I enjoy. That's totally fine. I'm at peace with that.

Can anyone on /adv/ point out some good resources on giving up fetishes?
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lol NSFW is just for images, text doesn't matter

anyway what fetishes are we talking about here? It's diapers isn't it.
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I'd be interested in this
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>>16936979

I posted about this the other night and /adv/ told me there was no getting over fetishes. Then my thread died.

So, OP, sitting here looking for the answer with you.
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>>16936986
piss, netorare, and oviposition.
One is impossible in real life (ovi) and usually the art is pretty disgusting stuff.
Piss is just plain disgusting.
Netorare literally makes me feel awful. I am aware that's what it's designed to do. But again, I don't feel awful in that way which is supposed to feel cathartic or good. I just plain feel bad.
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>>16937016
depends where you place yourself m8
I get off to milfs because I like the thought of fucking someone elses mom
if you're see yourself in the cucked position then you're gonna have bad times
can't help ya on the other two though
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>>16937016
I find a lot of the western furry ovi stuff is a lot less disgusting than the terrifying shit the japs come up with. Idk what it is with them and flesh walled caves.

I'm pretty surprised to hear you call piss "plain disgusting" considering urine is by far the most sterile substance exuded by the human body, did you know that it picks up more bacteria by coming into contact with the outside of your skin when you expel it from your body than it normally has in it. Saliva is a far more infected substance yet no one has a problem with exchanging that.
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>>16937023
The thing is that I really don't count myself as a cuckold. So I'd really rather just get over the porn and move on with my life.
>>16937034
I'm aware that piss is sterile, but something about it is still gut wrenching, yanno?
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>>16937052
idk why this shit bothers you so much anyway, porn is porn if it makes my dick hard I fap to it
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>>16937060
He's on to something
>>16937052
Let's make a pack then mate
No more jacking off
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>>16936979
You can get sort of addicted to the shame you feel from porn.
Theirs ways to reinforce yourself off the stuff. It starts by not masturbating to it. By associating pleasure with the fetish you exacerbate it. So try masturbating to something else maybe? Theirs more research on this subject. I'm not really an expert. Sorry op.
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>>16936979
I read this whole post in Garak's voice.

Look, just delete the porn that you find gross and don't seek out more of it. If you have problems doing that, see a professional. Like Dr. Bashir here. Or a therapist. Whoever you can get in to see.
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>>16936979
That's what happens when you watch too much porn. You need constant novelty and suddenly you're fapping to shit you didn't even know existed.
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>>16936979

I think it might help to realize why you like these fetishes and keep note of times which you seek out these fetishes.

Keep a mantra to tell yourself about not wanting to participate in that particular fetish.

I kind of a sex addict, and this is how I try to keep from being a shitty person who fucks people and then fucks them over.

good luck.
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>>16937199

I fap like three to five times a day, sext a lot of girls, and have a lot of sex

my biggest fetish is face sitting and rough sex. I don't think this is true.
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>>16937222
its definitely true for some people, not everyone
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>>16937222
>three to five times a day
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>>16937161
>>16937178
I can definitely try that. I've made notes to stay away from this stuff before, but I get away from it for months and then go back.
>>16937199
I like how the internet let me find some of my favorite fetishes. But I totally understand.what you're saying.
>>16937214
This sounds quite helpful. I definitely think I'll do that.
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That's porn addiction for you.
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