Is it possible for a man to get into a stable relationship with

Anything is possible, but are you ready to get slapped in the dick?

>>16915706
I'm not into dick slapping if that question is literal

>>16915699
bump

>>16915750
Get into it. It can be pretty nice. Talk to her about her relationship ideals and see if they mesh with yours. That's the only way to answer the question.

>>16915699

it depends. are you into bdsm? then sure, why not?

if you arent into bdsm, then you probably cant have a stable relationship. you'll want for normalcy. she'll want for bdsm.

>>16916149
Well duh I'm into BDSM. Why else would I ask if it's possible to get into a relationship involving one?

>>16916158

because you are a desperate male seeking any relationship he can get his hands on, and perhaps literally your only option was a 350 pound five foot landwhale who got into bdsm because shes a 'stronk indupendunt woman'

The real question is why would you ask if its possible to get into a relationship if you are already into bdsm and know that it would be therefore be stable?

>>16916169
Cause I really don't know if it would be stable. All of the girls I've met who are (openly) into BDSM are either suicidal tumblristas or the stronk indupendunt woman you mentioned earlier.

I've never been in a relationship but I know I'm not desperate enough to date a landwhale

>>16916266
>>16916169
Oh, and I'm not really in a position to get into a relationship at the moment. I think I worded that wrong in the OP. I'm just a dude who fantasizes about BDSM a lot and I was wondering if getting into a stable relationship involving it.

>>16915699

It's only in porn. I mean, are there women that will dominate you sexually? Yes. They are super rare, most women want to be submissive sexually and want a man to be dominant in general. Women crave masculine men.

That's just reality.

>>16916390

ah. i was under the impression you had fears about dating a bdsm woman.

yes, its possible to have a stable relationship. not a OTP LOVE LAST FOREVER FAIRYTALE relationship. but one no better or worse than the others.

>>16916390
Yes, it is definitely possible. There are even websites that can help you find dominant ladies. However, dom girls are a bit rare, so you will likely have to search for a while. If you get sick of that, the alternative is to look for a girl who you like who might be willing to try domming you. A third option is to have a vanilla gf with whom you have less kinky sex than you want, and then have an open relationship where you get your BDSM needs met elsewhere (with the knowledge and consent of your partner).

If you know in your heart of hearts that you need BDSM components to your relationship, whether you want a lifestyle thing or just during sex, you need to inform potential partners fairly early on in the relationship. Not during the salad course of the first date (unless you meet on fetlife or something), but after a few months.

>>16917262

Those women are going to universally have mental issues.

Find a good woman and let the fetish burn away.

>>16917266
That is not true. There is no correlation between psychological issues and enjoying consensual BDSM. Do some research, even on wikipedia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BDSM#cite_ref-moser_112-0

>>16917285

How about you do some research in the real world? Women almost universally want a man to be dominant, and find submissiveness very unattractive.

Or maybe you are talking about females of another species.

Those in to BDSM absolutely have psychological issues, usually relating to fear / anxiety.

>>16917296
OP here. Yeah, I will admit that there are psychological issues with people who are into BDSM and that it is born out of certain anxieties. I suffer from pretty big self consciousness issues and I do have a fair amount of anxiety (not like I have a disorder though, everyone has anxiety). That doesn't mean everyone who's into it is absolutely fucked though.

>>16917296
coincidentally people into vanilla sex also frequently have issues with fear and anxiety

Your best bet is to take a look on FetLife.

>>16917296
Who DOESN'T have issues and sublimated trauma? Our bodies and minds are put under near-constant, unnatural stressors that we never evolved for and people are discovering hardcore HD porn before they're twelve now. Sounds like you need to research the real world tbqh desu