Social inept here...
Girl I'm talking to on tinder brought up some of her "past issues." How do I respond to this? Like I don't want to be pitiful/sorry for her, but I don't want to be too dismissive? Basically, I'm just not sure how to steer the conversation without sounding like "anyway..."
unloading issues on someone early on is a fuckhuge red flag bro
>>16908565
I figured as much... You think I should just unmatch her?
Why not just try something and see what happens? Do you plan to ask /adv/ what to say when the minister asks you if you take so-and-so to be your lawfully wedded wife?
>>16908580
Well, that's why I was asking since it's like, the fourth message on tinder, and I've never had a girl decide to just be like "oh btw I'm recovering from a bunch of issues."
But more than anything I just wouldn't know what to say to that specifically. Like, I don't want to just keep her on about it by asking too many questions. I want to keep the convo' positive.