Help. Girlfriend of 3,5 years just said no when I proposed her.

well, what reason did she give you for the rejection?

>>16907007
And do you think you're entitled to her saying yes? What does it fucking matter if she gets engaged to you now or in 5 years? You're together either way. You're letting a manmade concept fuck with your head and it's going to split you apart, good work nigga

>>16907007
it's ok op
3,5 years it's not so long of a time
the relationship is over though

>>16907007
She doesnt want to marry you. You love her but you were rejected. You have to let her go anon and find someone who will marry you. You either are satisfied with only ever having a gf or you look for a wife. What do you want anon.
>inb4 I want her to be my wife
Cant have that one. Pick again.

>>16907023
His name isn't anon it's OP

>>16907007
how are you with someone for 3.5 years and not know what their answer would be? Sounds to me you know the relationship is on the rocks and threw a hail mary

>>16907014
I didn't ask reason right away when she said no, I just shocked and left away. But she said she cannot marry me althousgh she loves me.

>>16907016
I really thought she would say yes.
And I don't want to waste years waiting that she will marry me, I want to get married and have children but I wont get children if I'm not married.

>>16907023
I really dont want to let her go, I love her and think that she is love of my life...

Well, id's say it's over. I've only been with my bf for a year, but if he would ask me i'd say yes, even thought i think it would be a bit early. I mean, it would only mean we're engaged and i'm down with that. We could still stay unmarried for a while if we think we aren't ready. If she gave you a "no", she doesn't see this working out in the long run. Sorry op...

>>16907069
You're just going to have to ask why then. Also, marriage isn't the huge deal they make it out to be. You don't really have to get married.

>>16907075
Avoid getting married but stay together.

Also, don't have kids because you're clearly retarded.

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you

If this is you darling, you've been fucking me around for the last three and a half years, longer let me know where We fucking stand, I can't stand anymore, obviously I'm desperately in love with you, love me

>talked about marriage
>she said no
There's literally no salvaging that. She was blowing smoke up your ass for years. No responsible adult could go this long with obvious reservations and never address them.