How do I stop romanticizing things and having the "grass is greener on the other side" way of thinking?
>NEET while romanticizing what it must be like to work and take the good with the bad
>romanticize rural living
>not close to family and wish I had family to be close to like Asian friends
>romanticize big city living, wish I lived somewhere like Tokyo
It goes on and on.
>>16904069
Actually go to college for stem and then go live and work in Tokyo and then retire and go to the rural side
>>16904082
You forgot:
>get married to Japanese woman and be close to her family