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I'm in a bit of a weird place with my girlfriend. I feel like she's only really pretending to be into the same shit that I'm into. Music, movies, hobbies, food, everything I enjoy she... I don't know, adopts the attitude of enjoying I guess. I guess it's kinda cute in a way, she's trying real hard to make sure we have common ground to build this relationship on, but it's annoying as fuck.
If we just had different interest, I would be more than fine with that. It's what I expected to be honest. It's gotten to the point that I don't mention what bands I'm into at the moment or what books I'm reading, because I know she'll wikipedia that shit and quote vague, general statements at me.
I've tried talking to her about it, told her that she really doesn't need to share all my interest, but she doesn't seem to have taken my words to heart. It's honestly gotten to the point that I'm considering breaking up with her.
Am I just being petty, or are my grievances legitimate?
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Test her. Ask her for something she likes. Then shit on it. If she agrees then she's got no personality and I'd say dump her. Jesus I had a friend like that and it got to a point where they didn't have any boundaries. Idk how anyone can even stand dating someone like that. If I wanted an exact clone with myself I'd get a sex doll and tape a photo of myself to it.
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Yeah i know just what you mean OP, i have a close friend who is very much like that, just not to the same extent. Honestly i don't know what i would do if my GF was acting like that, but i would probably consider breaking up.
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I would be direct with her about it, let her know it's okay to not like the same things all the time.
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