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How did you get over that girl in your life?

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How did you get over that girl in your life?
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by realizing she has herpes. ew.

the vengabus is comin
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>>16807069

came on 4chan and got redpilled on women and that they have no souls, so i stopped giving a fuck about them altogether
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time and drugs.
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>>16807069
Heroin.
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Sometimes you cant.

>fall for girl as a teenager
>meet her now and again, once or twice a year by chance
>always have a great time together, talk for hours
>always gives me the vibe that she likes me too
>nothing ever comes of it
>even if we somehow connected or fucked or whatever it would just fall apart because we are so different and the drama/ depression of losing my beloved gf would make me unloveable for at least a couple of months

Soyeah, ill propably have her in the back of my mind until i die.
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/r9k/
Fucked a few escort girls.
Started to go clubbing.
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>>16807069
video games
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Go out and do things. If you sit around dwelling on it you'll end up in a vicious downward spiral.

You're single again, ignore the feelings, ignore the occasional pangs from reminders, and go have fun with it. Your best bet is to get laid. Barring that, anything that is or should be fun.

If you just keep moving ahead with life before you know it you'll have your life back and be meeting new people.
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>>16807069
Busted a nut in some other whore
Also drugs and money and other shit
Also why was she important what did she bring to the table beside bs
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>>16807084
>>16807120
This
I need more smack son
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jerked off to her

kinda makes you feel dirty, degrading her.
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>>16807069
I didn't. It's still weird.
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This is all great advice thanks anons!

Except maybe heroin but I don't doubt it would work.
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>>16807069
She died.
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I didn't.
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Still chasing her.
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>fucked other women
>focused on school/work
>funnel energy into hobbies
>slow, steady descent into alcoholism/chronic masturbation

most importantly
>redpill'd enough from 4chan to no longer desire romantic relationships
>gun-shy from a false rape accusation
the thought of having a relationship that's deeper than superficial acquaintances terrifies me
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Alcohol
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>>16807069
First by drinking, then she had a kid with some redneck.
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>>16807080
a little bit of this and A LITTLE BIT OF THAT

no seriously though, what this anon said, and i realized how much of a shit human being she was. Made it really easy in the end.

not going to lie, I still jack off to her memory sometimes. That body was nice, no denying that.
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I just gave it time and then found a new girl to fall for and the circle of broken heart continued for like 9 times
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>>16807074
>vengabus
Kek, what?
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>>16807069

About a year of /r9k/, getting treated like an idiot by a select handful of women, getting out of high school, getting into college, having one of those select women getting into my dad's head, having my dad kick me out of the house for no discernible reason and making plans of enlisting in the military.

Now, I just kinda hate people. The more different we are, the more I tend to hate them.
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>Girl #1
I had to promise that I'd never fail in love with her
>Girl #2
She made me agree that us kissing would be super weird and ruin or friendship.

I was in both of these women's weddings. The pain got to a point where it killed whatever feelings I might have had. These women are better off without me as their lover. I'm just the smiley guy they see every do often.
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>>16807928
I have a Brick, went through a Bun and fronted my roommate a half; still couldn't forget...

I'm going with the needle tomorrow, as nothing is helping. I just want the void.
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>>16809059
>I'm just the smiley guy they see every do often.

Fuck, there's nothing to do except smile like a goddamn lunatic, is there.
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She moved away and with her absence i was able to think clearly again.

My biggest fear about it all is she might come back and reel me back in.

like shit man she has my number. she used to sit next to me back in college and talk about all the old times we had together, she had a goddamn twinkle in her eye and the warmest and softest fucking voice i ever heard.

Like goddamn she used to make my fucking face hurt because i wasn't used to smiling that much. I can't explain it man everytime im around her I feel warm and relaxed and shit. She is worse then drugs man I hope she never comes back.
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by not seeing her ever again
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Been there. Had my lifelong girl from HS through college. Upon graduating college in SoCal and going to USAF pilot training I found out she was seeing her acting agent for the previous 2 years. Sucked. Her dad was pissed and told me to just sleep with a lot of women and focus on ME, my goals, dreams and career. He was right. It took YEARS to get over her and honestly, you never really forget. But you do move on. And when you learn to be yourself, be by yourself, and learn to be strong, the right girl who is attracted to the man you become will come along. Until she does, carpe diem.
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>>16808835
read this in the voice of Steve Buscemi
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>>16807069
by focusing on something productive
progress, and new women will come.
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By putting the car in Drive.
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By finding someone better than her. Her new bf doesn't know that she's a slut who hits me up every Saturday to make plans though.
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I never did.
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>>16809107
brool cory stro
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I apparently haven't. 4 years down the toilet. She left me for some Chad. I thought I was doing better until Valentine's Day. I was literally depressed all day.
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>>16809033
There we go. Operator-chan will never betray you, enlistee!
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>>16807069
I don't understand how people get attached to another person so strongly. For me it's literally only sexual attraction, when I cum my brain restarts completely and I have no desire or care to the other person.
I am pretty sure I never experienced love
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>>16808839
Not op, but I'd like to know how much.
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For some reason... I never get over them, time just drifts us apart.
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You people are too externally involved.

It's the age of me. You're allowed to be selfish. In fact, it's encouraged. Get out of your room. Go do what you want to do. Remember when you wanted to get a motorcycle and she said no? Go fucking do it. Remember all the movies she dragged you through? You don't have to do that anymore.

You get to do whatever the fuck you want. This world is big and beautiful. Go get lost in it.
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>>16807069
Married her
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>>16807069
Drugs and masturbation,
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By realising that Im far happier alone, which ended up being true. Bitches and whores, beaches and shores, dishes and chores.
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>>16807069
I didn't. She clinges to me like shit and claims she's pregnant and passively pressures me with that so I stay in contact with her.

>if she gets her next periods, I'm going to cut all connections to that slut
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>>16807069
Time, years.
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>>16807069
By getting into relationship with someone else and you will only have time to think of the new girl. I know man, some girls just induce love inside you and you just can't be with them. You might feel, she's the most perfect one for you, but not, because why? First try at anything is a mistake. That's your brain pointing out a wrong partner but instead you should be considering an another girl.
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>>16807069
party, drink, and other grills
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She lost her virginity to another guy and found out she drinks. Lost interest immediately after 5 years.
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Time and other women, the only two surefire ways of moving on.
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By never putting any actual value in relationships.
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i watch all seasons of how i met your mother,
kynda helps
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>>16809349
you never actually loved her, faggot. good job wasting both your time and her's.
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If you actually think 4chan "red pilled" you to the truth about women, then let me tell you that you're just swallowing more blue pills.

4chan is literally filled with two unrealistic extremes. Waifu level worship and the "women are soulless" agenda. Nothing about either of those is red pill.
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>>16809281
I don't actually agree with this personally, but the "bitches and whores" bit at the end of your post is solid. I like that.
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>>16809387
This. By all means, this. If you legit want to be hapoy in a relationship, DO NOT take it too seriously.

That way, when she inevitably cheats/leaves you for another guy/you-name-it you won't give a flying fuck.
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>>16809202
Lucky faggot, I wish I could do this.
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>>16809433
Dubs confirms the truth.
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>>16807069

Consulting a social support psychologist (free and easy in Belgium). Best thing I ever did in my life. It still helps me and I'm rediscovering myself.

Also: dating, good friends, music and lots of alcohol.
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Find another girl to obsess over.
Loneliness consumes, it is hard to fight your basic instincts, for years I thought of no girls and it was great until she smiled at me, why God did she smile at me fuck my life.
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Met someone else.

I was done with them for a while before that, but actually letting someone else in really brought me back to who I was before
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>tfw this thread reminds you of her
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>>16809187

Thanks, /k/ommando, I appreciate it.
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>>16809090
I know this feel too well
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>>16807069
Got with hotter girl, me and hotter girl broke up and was destroyed by her. Then got back with first girl for a few days then was destroyed by HER but forgot about hotter girl. So you just gotta find another girl to stress about.
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>>16808828
Same, good luck to us both.
>tfw you understand you'll probably never get her back but you just can't give up
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Time
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>>16810934
>>16808828
You guys watch too many movies. Life's not like that.
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1. Delete social media that is of her, get rid of physical photos, store away sentimental things if you don't want to get rid of it. Get rid of everything that reminds you of her.
2. Masturbate
3. Go out and do something
4. Surround yourself with friends, family, whoever makes you happy
5. Masturbate
6. Listen to music
7. Listen to angry music
8. Exercise
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>>16810989
It can happen, anon. It's not likely, but some people need piece of mind. And if trying and wasting their lives is what it takes, eh, let em be.

Who knows, one of em just might make it.
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>>16807069
Found out she was sleeping around with my church buddies, left church, no contact whatsoever, focused on education in automotive technology, now a service adviser. Glad I never had a relationship with her
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>>16811248
23 btw
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Time. Nothing else will make you forget or get over, only temporarily distract you. I know this because I've been heartbroken, destroyed by someone who was once my everything, the love of my life. I never thought I would get over it, but I did. It took time, but I prevailed and so will you. Take this time to improve yourself. Good luck.
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>>16807069
Time, self reflection, and realization.
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>>16811018
This
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