Is it normal to become waaayyy more upset when someone defends themselves when you're upset? Like it usually goes like this
>Slightly upset or mad at someone
>Bring it up with them
>They defend themselves and it's usually a shitty excuse or an argument of semantics or simply "I don't remember telling you that"
>I go from 10 to 100 and just want to tell them to go fuck themselves
>More than that if they start fighting with me I just want to shout "STOP DEFENDING YOURSELF", but moreso when they're clearly in the wrong
Is it normal to not want an argument/explanation when you're upset with a person's shitty behavior and just want a "I'm sorry, I won't do it again"?
>10 to 100
is generally not normal. Being a self-serving idiot doesn't justify a 10 fold increase in emotions.
I do that too but I'm a social fuckup. It's propably best if you stop doing it OP.
>>16772230
It's an expression.
I'll go from being slightly pissy to "go fuck yourself"
Man, I bet you handle getting told your fuck ups like a champ. /sarcasm
Sounds like you've put up with a lot of shit. I tend to get like that now, you just have to remember to be patient in your understanding. Its the best virtue in the world.
I can be similar, but I'm female.
It's normal