I have a choice to make (pic related). There is a girl that

>>16635021
Do both.

I was a virgin before my gf of 2 years and while sometimes I wonder what it would have been like to see other girls, another part of me knows that this probably isn't forever and I'm really not missing out on shit. If anything I'll know more about relationships and working things out if we break up than if I had just floated through life maybe not even fucking random girls, who knows, but all I know is that right now I'm really happy. If I feel bored I watch porn, I really don't have a desire to cheat because she wants me and I want her

>>16635033
I don't want to cheat or be a dickhead

I never went through the wild phase, and everything turned out fine. My wife and I both lost our virginity to each other and we have an amazing relationship and sex life. I never cared what the about what the wild side offered.

I have A, except we are extremely wild together. I'd prefer that over being relatively less-wild with a lot of different people.

>>16635021

the fact that you havent even started your wild phase tells me you are young. meaning that things with this girl are in no way going to work out. so my advice?

date her. the 'wild phase' isnt a phase so much as it is osmething people do inbetween meeting the right girl.

so date her, have fun, end it when it goes south. ur like 19 bro.

>>16635076
Best advice ITT. He's really spot on, you just do your own thing until you meet someone with whom you really get on well with. Besides random sex isn't that great. The best part is just putting notches in your belt, and even then it's not that interesting after a half dozen times.

>>16635021

The "wild" phase isn't as great as it's made out to be. And even then, no matter how great the girl is, it might not work out between you, and you'll be back with your chance for going wild. Don't fall for "the one" meme.

Just fuck it bro, there's no wrong choice. Do whatever feels right. No matter what's your pick, you'll be richer for the experience. But if you just manage to hit the amazing meaningful relationship jackpot by some chance, I assure you, you will not be worse off for doing a few less girls in total.

I'd go for that girl.

>>16635076
>the fact that you havent even started your wild phase tells me you are young
I'm 23 soon. I had some real fucked up times, and it took me years of self-improvement to reach a point where I can be social with people etc.

To be honest, even at this point I need a lot of work to be able to hit it off with girls and people in general. But I'm really getting there. Ofcourse I'm not completly clueless, like I can handle my shit well, so its not like I have no idea what Im doing.

On the other hand, I have this very sweet girl who apparently loves me for who I am and would like to be in a relationship. I need to say, this relationship has the potential for something meaningful, serious, maybe long lasting with a lot of connection etc. But this makes me feel like if I go down that route, I am missing out on the other experiences like casual hookups that I havent made yet

>>16635153

yes, that is what you said in the OP, i am aware.

even if you are 23, you are emotionally just 19 years old, you havent had your 'wild phase' yet, which AGAIN, is not actually a phase, its something that happens inbetween your serious relationships.

so date the girl. you like her, she likes you, and that is part of your wild phase. you arent going to marry her. and if you TRULY one day woke up and decided to marry her and she is the love of your life, then there would be zero regrets.

trust me, this is your first relationship by the sound of it, considering you havent even asked out and are already hinting that you might marry her. so you will likely date for six months to a year and end it. maybe longer. maybe less.

but the point is you will have time inebtween this relationship and your next where you will be confident enough (having already bagged an awesome girl) to sleep with others.

>>16635021
A. What the hell are you thinking if this is a difficult decision for you?

>>16635044
betanerd. go read books, its all you do anyway

>>16635166
>considering you havent even asked out and are already hinting that you might marry her.

Good lord, anon, dont scare me. Also, it was her who asked me to be with her, and I am currently considering. I really care about her, thats why I decided that either I embrace all implications of a relationship, or none at all. And since this is one of those relationshps that have this meaningful non-bullshit thing to it, there is a lot of potential for it to develop. That means if I commit to it, it wont be "just some silly relationship", it has the POTENTIAL to be a big deal. I need to account that.

I had a gf once, although it was a long distance thing. I would have cheated on her in a heartbeat back then. Ofcourse I was also completly in love with her and thought that "she is the one" etc etc. Trust me, I went through this, and am currently in a position where I can logically think things true.

And in this case, I can say from a rational-objective point of view, that this could go far

Also, thank you a lot anon. You have provided a lot of clarity for me here

>>16635253

>in a position where i can logically think things through

you really arent anon.