I met a guy a year and half ago. I'm 23, he's 25. We

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2015-12-31 13:33:47 Post No. 16625745
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I met a guy a year and half ago. I'm 23, he's 25.
We went out together for 8 months. He had never been in a committed relationship and kept saying that he wasn't my boyfriend. We clearly had feelings for each other and we were happy together anyway.
10 months ago, he got really depressed for unrelated reasons. He cut contact and disappears.
After a month we started talking again. He moved pretty far away from me. I help him dealing with his depression. Over time, he got better. He started going out with other girls, I stopped thinking about him romantically.
3 weeks ago, we talked on the phone. He apologized for all he did, said that he loves me and misses me. He also told me that I'm the only girl that keeps him interested, the only person he truly cares about and nothing would make him happier than being my boyfriend.
Last night he told me he's going to move close to me for work.

Should I give him another chance?
I really do like him, but I hate drama and this thing is already incredibly complicated.

Anonymous 2015-12-31 13:41:11 Post No.16625762
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>>16625745
Avoid confusions for they pray on your soul and you wont know the truth.

Better knowing then guessing.
He will keep on dating other girls as soon as you turn a blind eye

Anonymous 2015-12-31 13:43:57 Post No.16625770
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>>16625745
Man, you just gave me the mother of all flashbacks, save the genders are reversed.

I did it. It didn't end well, but I'm glad I did it and didn't spend a lifetime wondering. I would say the same for you but make sure you have a way out.

Anonymous 2015-12-31 13:54:09 Post No.16625788
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Anonymous 2015-12-31 13:54:09 Post No.16625788 [Report]

>>16625770
I am terrified of getting invested in him and getting hurt again.
At the same time I know that he's one of the few people I felt strongly for (I'm quite "cold hearted") and I never got closure, because our relationship was relatively fine when he disappeared. I kept wondering how things would have been if he was in a better mental state. I've been waiting for this moment for months, and now that I have a chance to get him back I feel paralysed.

I am sorry that it didn't work for you, anon.

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