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Hi /adv/, i'm seeking some relationship and sex advice
Thing is i'v been with my first girlfriend of for over a year so far, at the start there were no problems whatsoever with sex, we fucked all the time, but as time went i found that my sexual desire, my flame so to speak, became smaller and smaller, to the point where i'm rejecting my girlfriend's advances for sex because i really just dont feel like fucking at all, what the hell? It comes to the point that the very idea of sex gives me this nauseous feeling inside me that makes me not want to have it, even though right now we have at most sex two times per week maybe, some times three which shouldn't be bad, but it just feels weird for me to be rejecting my gf's advances so much, i fear this might spark something bad on her part some day, i fear i may not have enough sexual strength for her.
The other thing is that when it comes to fapping, i have no trouble whatsoever, and i'll actually masterbate on days where i reject my gf's sex advances, which makes it look like i prefer my own hand over my girlfriend for sexual satisfaction..
Can anyone make logic out of this? Am i just not attracted to my gf anymore or something? But then i still have and enjoy sex with her... oh hell
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Three questions:
1. When you fap alone instead of having sex with her, what do you fap to?
2. When you have sex with her, what about sex is it that is/was enjoyable?
3. When you watch porn, what do you self-insert as?
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>>16609446
I watch sometimes hentai porn, but most of the times normal porn, i self insert as the man, many times ill be masterbating to photos of naked women so there is not much to insert myself as besides imagining myself fucking that same woman.
Sex with her is enjoyable in the way that we are both excited, and enjoying it, we both want it, and its enjoyable to me to feel her ass as i penetrate her from behind.
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>>16609425
I second this thread AS i have the same problem. 25, lots of fuckbuddies. Now i am in a relationship again i lost my spark...
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bump for visibility..
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>>16609512
That post is your problem.
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>>16609967
what, you mean ocasionally looking at porn?
or enjoying sex with her?
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Try and inhibit fapping to porn. Over time, you may find that your sex drive improves within the context of wanting to plow your gf.
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