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I need some advice, because right now I feel sexually confused.

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I need some advice, because right now I feel sexually confused.

There is this girl I like and have been trying to woo for the past few weeks yet she seems scared of me.

I've visited her doorstep almost twice every week since we've met and she just never answered. I even brought flowers and candies for her.

Things were going so great too when we first dated. I introduced myself to her when she appeared to be sitting by herself at a local watering hole. She felt a little nervous about a stranger talking to her let alone coming on to her so she told me right up front that "her biology was male". Now I knew what this meant and knew that it meant she was transgender.

My firm belief was that gender was irrelevant when it came to girls so I told her it didn't matter to me. This brought a smile to her face and we began seeing each other for sometime.

But it seems like the more she was around me the more she seemed to drift from me. Almost as if she didn't want anything to do with me. Why are girls, trans or cis, always so judgmental of men? I've had girls in the passed snub me and even flat out insult me by calling me a disgusting cretan. I thought a trans women would at least be against such bullying, but it appears they are no different from any other cisgendered gal.

Anyway, I absolutely love this woman more than any other woman I've dated, but she just doesn't seem interested in me.

What can I do to make her see how much I love her?

I am getting desperate now and am willing to try anything.

I need her back into my life.

Signed, Robert

p.s. I went to her house yesterday to wish her a Merry Christmas, but she didn't answer again. I am planning on going back today with her Christmas present.
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OP, why are such a disturbing cretan?
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Holy shit dude, chill a little. If you're visiting her house regularly and she doesn't answer it means you're smothering her.
I think it's pretty obvious she doesn't want to see you any more.
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>>16599313
But it feels like she never gave me a chance on getting to know me. I just want to let her know how much of a nice guy I am. I even offered to pay for her surgery in Thailand and she just starred at me blankly as if I were some weirdo.
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>>16599307
There is a reason, why do women call you a disgusting cretan? Are you creepy or offensive?
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>>16599307
Don't go to her house again she clearly doesn't want you there! She might call the cops next time
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>>16599315
You have to accept the fact that she doesn't owe you a chance to get to know you if she doesn't want to.
Besides, even if she did accept your offer to cover her surgery she would be indebted to you for it, no matter what you said on the subject. Besides, by the sound of it you're bringing up the fact that she's trans way too heavily.
I say back off a little, no more visits, and in like two weeks try texting/facebook messaging her or some shit. If she doesn't respond it means it isn't gonna happen.
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>>16599316
I don't know! I always try to treat them with respect and make sure they know they are loved. I always make sure they can feel secure yet they just seem to bully me instead.
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>>16599321
I've been texting her and even found her on Facebook to message her. She still hasn't accepted my friend request!!!

I think I'm going to die. This is even worse than when that Muslim girl I've dated broke up with me over some minor incident with her family.

I still cannot let any of the memories of either of these two girls out of my mind. Thinking of them always makes me cry like a faggot.
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She wouldn't be indebted to me if I paid for her surgery. I would have covered the cost just out of my love for her. I cannot normally afford it, but I would find some way to pay for it. My heart hurts right now.
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She's not interested, and that doesn't mean she's 'bullying' you and it doesn't mean she simply needs to realise how infatuated you are. She already knows and she doesn't feel the same way.
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OP do not take this as an insult but you are wading farther and farther into the realms of being completely and utterly pathetic with every action you appear to take towards this girl.

You have to accept that currently she is simply not interested. Investing your attention and money into her doesn't make her obligated to love you back, the only thing you are doing is alienating yourself from her.

Put yourself in her shoes. Imagine if there was someone you simply did not wish to see, who kept showing up at your house pining for your attention, leaving unwanted gifts and making absurd commitments to you despite you barely knowing them.

You cannot justify your actions under a guise of being nice. Women dislike nice guys because being nice is an act, you are acting that way because you have motives. Strive to be kind, as kindness is a mindset and comes from the heart, there is no act associated with it.

In her mind you are fast becoming a bothersome pest OP. Perhaps you should think about why you crave girls attentions so much, you seem to be desperate to fill a void, a void that can only be filled by yourself, not the attentions of others
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Is this fucking Bert? Wtf?
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You could try one last gesture of love. I'd send a marching band to window or write and perform a song about her.
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>>16599356

gud poast
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Transwomen have to deal a lot with chasers that have watched too much porn and are only interested in them for their genitalia when most of them don't like their genitalia and it gives them panic, so they are weary that the men they are dating are just chasers. You're most likely coming on too strong.
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>>16599449
I agree that would be best for OP
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