I'm beginning to believe that the current guy I'm dating performed some sort of spell on me.
I met him over 2 years ago. We run in the same occult circles and became acquainted through mutual friends. I had no interest in him physically or emotionally. He seemed too reserved and into the wrong kind of magical practices. He had tried asking me out a few times and I always turned him down. Then, about 7 months ago, I became obsessed with him. He hadn't changed at all but I began to fawn over him. I pursued him and we began dating, despite us not having anything in common other than our love for the paranormal. He does things I hate, he's not in shape (something that I would never compromise on) and I feel nothing towards him. Yet, I can't bring myself to leave him or worse, say no to him. I've done things with him that I've never done before. He wants sex and I can't bring myself to say no, no matter how grossed out I am.
What can I do about this?
Its not a spell its basic psychology.
He showed interest, you became used to it.
Part of you became somewhat hooked on the positive attention.
He stopped asking, your brain began to wonder what changed, this spiraled into an obsession that culminated in you compromising principles for the purposes of your obsession.
Realize that you do not require his attention or his confirmations. Know that this was largely a subconscious biological effect in your brain/hormones, and leave.
This is classic stuff, spells not required.
Habit, not obsession. We are creatures of habit and any interruption in our habits can change the way we think without our consciously noticing. Don't make it seem like more than it is.
>we run in the same occult circles
The guy you are dating is gay, and like most fat girls you find this a fascinating challenge. He is just having fun with you and when you're not around he's in rest stop bathrooms dumping AIDS infected condoms into his anus.
you fucking retard, thats a normal reflex for a woman and it has nothing to do with magic, even animals have this reflex, they shook and feel like under a spell so the man can do whatever he likes to with the female, if you didn't knew this you should fucking stop with magic and studie nature you retard son of a whore
It's a spell called "reproductive desire."
As in no spell at all. You just want to have sex and aren't mentally strong enough to you know, turn down a guy who wants to fuck you.
Nothing magical. If there were spells to get guys laid, every single one would be using them instead of alcohol.
same person as above.
I'm not going to try and bash you like other fags in this thread.
But, a spell of sorts is him telling you over and over again that he likes you... That alone right there is bias enough for me to believe he just really liked that, and it's up to you to realize and come to terms with why you did become "obsessed" with him.
Because that "obsession," whether it was pleasent or not, holds ALL of the clues.
It really doesn't. She needs to figure out what she actually wants to do with her life so she'll have a reference frame for understanding why she doesn't need someone like this. She needs to be up front about how she feels and not lead him on. "Habits" that involve other people are called relationships.
Hey man, I'm just going out on the whim that this guy maybe has one or two redeeming qualities..
Seems like shes already referencing that frame though. If she's even still here...
>"hurr durr I'm under a spell"
>implying this isn't your shitty fantasy that has been fueled by obsessive consuming of twilight, Harry potter and whatever else obese lonely woman love
you will never have a slim 18 year old "vampire" love you, beast.
So was I. She doesn't need someone like this not because he's trash or anything, but because she's not ultimately in love with or compatible with him.
The ugliest thing in human society is leading people on.
Not everybody here is a fat edgy wannabe satan worshipper or "occult expert" spending their days watching twilight, reading shitty fanfics and going "I can be a vampire 2 if I go to x where those dipshit delusional retards are desperate to have some contact with something they consider paranormal"
hardly any thread on x ever hits the mark and doesn't royally embarrass the fuck out of no less than 6 shitposters but when a thread does hit the mark, it really hits the mark. That's why I'm here. To find that diamond in the rough.
ayyy lmao potions and spells? wtf one time some friend caused a massive storm here in south central Texas back in 98 fucking with some black magic ish.
Well, first you are going to have to determine the school/sect of the magic and the how. I would suggest asking someone in your circle well versed in auramancy to try and determine the first and just observe him to figure out the second. May the Fallen guide you to the answers.
You're goofing around with the paranormal which means you are exploring good vs evil. Heaven exists, as does Hell. Evil spirits do seek innocent souls to capture. Do not kid yourself.
Like it or not, Earth really is a place where you can see how evil continually screws up a decent place. That means Earth is supposed to be the place where you learn to find your way back to the dimensions that free you from evil forever.
Could you both be attracted to a common evil - one he summoned on purpose and one you inadvertently carry because you turn on God? Yes, that's possible.
At the end of the rainbow you'll find God. You don't have to confront your boyfriend about a spell. Break it yourself by deciding if good matters and your friend will go away.
>Don't make it seem like more than it is
Funniest fucking words I could have ever hoped to read in a thread literally about a girl thinking that her boyfriend has cast a spell on her.
This. I was abou to post something similar. He just used reverse psychology on you OP and you were too dumb to realize the fact at the time. Break up with him if you don't want to be with him. Nothing supernatural is keeping you together.
>Ugh, those disgusting love spells! I mean, there's so many of them though! Which one? Which one did he use?!
OP answer this please I need to know so I can fix it