post the most depressive pictures in your hard drive
My dad had an affair after 22 years of marriage to mum.
That 22 years was the whole basis I have of relationships, they seemed perfect, had 3 kids, im the middle one, he was a hard worker, and I learned a lot of morals from him. although it was hard to actually get him to do anything interactive and positive I took the strength he seemed to have and wisdom and I still use it today, I know that a good marriage is the base for a good family.
SO anyway he turns 50, gets a harley and then a red headed slut, who by the way was on her third affair from her husband in the past 5 years and he had taken her back all 3 times.
He got sneaky, for example, at 9-10PM some nights he would jump in the shower and shave wearing brut, "I just got a call out for work, some pipes are burst" mum joked once that "those pipes must be pretty important", it broke me more that she was so loving and trusting of him that she was oblivious.
My sister found his second "work" phone that he kept really close and read some texts.
I found it a week later and read the same ones.
Mum started to suspect, then got a call from red head whores husband.
He had known for a while and had heared they were meeting at a local hotel.
Mum was heart broken and devestated.
She said there wasnt anything she could see was wrong, we talked about the past and some minor issues, but it seemed it was all his own stupid choice and weakness and got trapped by the succubus.
He eventually leaves and I never bother to contact him, sister forgives him and still dose.
One day while playing xbox he comes in and gives me a big hug. Im just cold, yeah ok. dont want to even look at him, just want to smash his stupid face.
Tolerate him coming to one Birthday party for sister, but he has started drinking (NEVER drank after I was born, he quit weed and got on track for live)
Fuck the rest, (unless you want more) basically, I laugh thinking that he is gonna end up like last 4 lines will be him as an old man.
Stupid asshat threw away everything, his home, his wife, his kids, his 6 grandkids, and all the rest of what he had spent the last 22 years building.
Am I bad for being so cold on the subject?
There's no such thing as a bad feeling. But it seems surprising to me.
The man did give you a nice childhood and such. He may have "devastated" your mom that one time, but he didn't directly or intentionally harm you in particular. He seems sufficiently affectionate toward you, too. It doesn't seem like you should have rejected him so plainly and completely.
I am far from being an authority on this subject, though. That's just my opinion,
Men masturbate when their physical needs aren't being met.
Men cheat when their emotional needs aren't being met.
Stop being so fucking entitled. You're not owed another human being's life. You have no right to demand that another sentient being stay in a relationship they hate, just because it makes your life easier.
I dont think im entitled, you fuck sitck.
I just think that its piss weak that he gave up so easily.
Hooked in by a serial cheater.
He now drinks heavily, and aparrently she abuses him verbally now they got married.
A friend told me he saw them at the local pub and she was making jokes at his expence with his mates, laughing at him and calling him useless.
Mum was at home one day, and a man comes to the door, "I have some forms for you to sign."
"What are these for?" as she is starting to sign.
"Your divorce papers."
Weak cunt couldnt even come and face her to tell her he was divorcing her.
I havent heard form him in 5 years now, my sister dosnt even bother to tell me updates. Last I heard he was pretty miserable.
What I was asking was do you think im cruel or cold to think that I laugh to imagine him sad and alone in a shitty little house after this whore leaves him and he has absolutely nothing except an old family photo.
Can you please tell me how it is convenient for my interests?
NO, seriously, you seem to know a lot about me and this situation, or have some really good opinions about it.
Tell me more. Im pretty open minded, who knows you might give me a different angle to view it from.
To me it has nothing to do with my interests, I am comfortable with the situation, and I dont really care anymore.
I am using it in life as his final example of what NOT to do.
I guarantee you he's not doing that.
People end relationships because they realise that the relationship isn't bringing them happiness or fulfilment.
Happy people don't end relationships for no reason.
You're overlooking everything that doesn't fit your narrative.
Yeah I know all that shit, the whole reason obviously was that he thought he was happier at the time, she spent lunch times with him, talked nicely and flirted with him, she "liked" motorbikes and the bikey scene with him, it was all honkey dory.
But now, he is suffering, she has turned into a cunt, bugged him into a divorce so he could get half the money and buy a house with her, and now that it is all over its all falling apart for him, at least thats what I last heard from my sister 2 years ago, since then I have asked her to not tell me anymore.
Honestly, if he is happy then all is well and good and really it dosnt matter either way dose it?
But from what I have heard, I think he is a fool for throwing away a wife, 2 kids, grandchildren, 3 propertys of about a million dollars total assets, and after spending all that time and effort to build it he isnt even around to see the fruits of his labor.
Thats why I laugh to think that end may come to him.
I wouldnt expect any better treatment for myself if I did the same.
Im a little bitter at the fact that we could be doing so many things together now that I have a family, I wanted to buy the same model of car that he first owned to for his birthday and we rebuild it together as somthing to do. All the lost opportunities just for somthing that as you say
>People end relationships because they realise that the relationship isn't bringing them happiness or fulfilment.
>Happy people don't end relationships for no reason.
Your right, but strong men work out their problems, not just give in (and if you would too your just as piss weak sorry bro)
Fuck if we all just gave up when the going gets tough then the world would be fucked.
Now once again mate, tell me what im overlooking or how it suits my interests (because you still havent)
I know a lot more of the whole situation than you realize I think.
Keep in mind my original question was do you think im cold or cruel for thinking>>39569.
Idk it's not like he was physically or emotionally abusive to your mom or you
Just a weak willed man who had a midlife
Crisis. Hoping he dies alone and miserable for that seems a bit excessive
He raised you loved you and taught you life positive lessons you still carry today for 20 years. What he did was cowardly and shallow but it doesn't negate all the good things he did in the past.
Your dad is getting old anon if he dies while your still bitter and full of hatred I think you will regret not seeing him and coming to terms him eventually
The child lived. Wouldn't it suck to be that firefighter who had to live with that? Knowing you pulled a Kate Winslett
GR 15 is in effect, so I can't put the absolute most depressing shit in my harddrive up, but I'll dump what I can of what I got.
It'll probably take a while to sort through shit and find the good ones...
Fuck, going over the stuff I saved when moot left is...
Nevermind, it's not important...
Why am I such a faggot? It's not like he's dead or anything? He still posts on the fucking site, he's still here, right?
Why does this still bother me so much, goddamnit?!
I'm gonna sage these now, since this is a really slow board and I'm starting to feel bad for bumping so much
If I get the get, and someone else wanted it for whatever reason, my sincerest apologies
Not really sure if these are more rage or depressing to be honest, but that's what I get for slumming it on /r9k/ for a night...
It's depressing in the same way that human psychology as a whole is depressing.
Honestly human psychology isn't really all that bad, but sometimes the resultants of the choices people make on an instinctual level have a funny way of reminding you of how shitty the world is
Either way, sorry if this isn't what you wanted OP. Fits the bill well enough for me, I'm sure someone will find it depressing...
Forgot to sage...
I know it's late as fuck, and that the board is slow, but is anyone lurking?
Glad someone is. I'm no oldfag, by any metric, but I've done too much board surfing to not have something to show for it I guess.
These ones coming through now are all from /tg/, by the way
If you're not familiar, this is a drawfag's rendition of Satoru Iwata. He was the president and CEO of Nintendo for a long time, and he had a major role in making a lot of games that a lot of Anon's on /v/ loved.
It was a very sad day when he died, the only thing that superseded his death was the sheer suddenness of it. Nobody was expecting it, and it caught everyone off guard.
Sometimes life seems like nothing more than a series of protracted losses, in a way it's humbling
I gotta dig into some folders now to see if I can find anything at this point. So I might slow down for a bit then pick up speed again later, or maybe not. I don't know.
This feel will be our little secret
Ok, I think that's about half of the depressing shit I have. The other half is all ponyshit though, because my home board is fucked in the head, so I guess I'm done.
you guys have a good night.
What pathetic drivel, holy shit. His parents gave him the chance of finding the truth himself, instead of telling him and have him reject it and do something stupid. I really hate the people on this site, such pathetic wankers. Seriously you fags belong in /r9k/ like OP who gets sad because "nogf" but does nothing to change it.
Oh piss off, you pathetic >tfwnogf. Depression is just the worthless scum's excuse to stay in shit and most of these pictures are for the most pathetic of nerds. Getting sad just because some guy who makes games and is in no way relevant to your real life (gaming isn't real life, nerd) is just pathetic. Or the moronic >tfwnogf feels that idiot OP has when he sees a gif, because he's too worthless of a human to do the most basic of actions that is getting a relationship.
>haha look at him cut the cake weird
Oh my god fuck family gatherings.
>He had been dishonest (not infidelity - "life" things), I couldn't come to term with his lying by omission
>It seemed like he threw away our relationship over nothing
>My friends reminded me not to get ahead of myself, that he was the same guy who lied to me
>Seeing him with his new girlfriend made me sick to my stomach
>I want him back so bad