How do I find someone near me who's into bdsm in a safe, non rapey way? Every site that i've tried hasnt panned out or been too sketch to be reliable. I want to mess around and see what im into seeing as I turned 18 a few months ago. Any recommendations?
Broach the subject with people whom you already like and have a mutual attraction with. A lot of women are into it a lot of guys are either into it or don't care what they have to do to get a sex up in there.