UK kink thread?
Introduce yourself, say what you're looking for
I'm a 21 y/o sub currently in Coventry looking for a domme/sub relationship and to be feminised. Tried fetlife a few times but the ratio on there is farrrr too skewed to ever get anything out of it
Not sure what I am looking for as I'm not the type of girl to meet random guys off the internet (not saying I'm not promiscuous, I just like to have actually met a person before sex is on the table). More like I am just bored and like chatting.
Got to be MMF ;) That's top of my list. Or getting more outlandish, being part of some kind of harem of a really attractive guy who has women falling all over him competing for his attention.
In the MMF, being sub to both ideally. I imagine two good friends. I'd like to be spitroasted and all that fun stuff ;)
With the harem it's almost like a cuckquean thing. I'd get jealous if he chose someone else one night but it would sort of turn me on, and encourage me to try harder and be more slutty for his attention so I get picked more. Have you ever seen the programme The Bachelor? Think like that but more sexual lol
as a male bi dom that sounds less fun then the other alt but ofc still quite fun :p
so powertrip over other women/re-affirmation of your own value and hardwork. wouldn't be interested in pleasing while another woman watches and teasing her and denying her sexual plrasure?
I would be interested in that but weirdly almost more interested in being the girl who is denied and has to watch. I just get off on jealousy sometimes. I've honestly Facebook stalked guys I've fancied who've got married or have perfect type girlfriends at their side or whatever and touched myself to thoughts that she gets to be fucked by him.
Nice one being a bi dom. Do you find it easier to get girls or guys to submit to you?
that's hot thinking about you sitting in the dark corner touching yourself not trying to make a sound...
that's very individual I would say, men know better the role as such I would say
On other occasions yes, I've had his finger and his cock up my arse ;)
Tittyfucking... well this is where I am jealous of other girls and not in a way that particularly arouses me! I'm a B cup so it is not easy.
I would probably get off on that, have to admit....
Not by a stranger plz. By someone I'm with yes
>fond teenage memories of pulling a guy at some disco thing and he just had his hands on my arse the whole time
I am enoying this conv btw and pleasantly surprised it hasn't degenerated into heyy bb u want sum fuk yet! I'm just sorry to have derailed the thread!
We seem to be the only ones here and I wouldn't consider it a derailment.
You certainly seem to be getting into the conversation. Any other dirty little fantasies you'd care to share?
Since you've caught me in a dangerously honest mood, a big one I could tell you about is that I would love to be seduced by a much younger (young as is legal!) and really cocky guy, the type who will boast to his friends about the desperate late 20s girl he had his way with.
Living in a student city as you can imagine I have a kind of love/hate relationships with the packs of drunken 18 year old twats who roam around town. Never acted on this but get pretty tempted to go and get picked up at some student club night. I would die if anyone I knew saw me though.
Or a whole fucking rugby team, the sky's the limit when you're fantasising right! I would like to think I could go out and just bring home two hot guys, but realisitically that could get a bit scary. The main way I imagine a threesome happening is having some FWB who has an open-minded friend, rather than some drunken exploit. Nice thought though!
I'm up for that :)
yeahm these are all based on the assumption that it is being done by someone that you have agreed to. did you like the humiluaton of that or would you like to tell how that happened?
My ex just used to do it to me when I was being submissive. He would spit on my face, spit in my mouth, make me thank him, make me swallow it or not let me clean it off. Whatever he felt like. And yes I loved the humiliation.
Only a bit, not the full extent. We have had sex maybe ten times, it is quite romantic and vanilla which I have no problem with, I'm not reliant on kink or into it every time I'm in the mood. He's great but not sure it will work out long term.
I'd say we had drifted apart and got steadily more pissed off with each other. We tried to make it work several times but didn't really work out. The sex was always great, but we've had a clean break now as he moved back with his family briefly and now has a job miles away, so that's that.
Thought you might be someone I'd spoken to before. Apparently not!
Sounds very familiar. I'm the same age as you, was somewhat annoying finding myself single again in my late 20s.
Are you having any luck? Have you joined the ranks of online dating? What happened to your LTR?
Nope, don't think we have spoken before, evidently there are others out there as messed up as me!
A little. I met a girl off tinder (lol) who is now a fwb and occasional day out partner, but I'm not hugely into her. Fooled around with a girl from work, but she's 19 and has a boyfriend so there are huge amounts of drama there and I really should know better. Haven't bothered with actual online dating sites. How about you?
Ltr fizzled out over a year I guess. In the end I think we were only staying together out of convenience so we called it a day.
Sounds like you're keeping active then! Lol about the 19-year-old when you're the same age as me. Both of us into the fresh meat lol.
I have so far avoided online dating. Current guy is a friend of a friend.
I would say enjoy yourself for a bit and don't rush into anything serious until you're ready. If anything I should have been more proactive in getting myself out there as I miss my younger days of FWBs and one night stands (only a few of them)
Likewise. Spending my mid-twenties in a ltr makes me feel like I have some catching up to do. And yeeeeah, it was a nice little ego boost to bag someone 9 years my junior. Do you have kik/Skype/an email? We've kinda dragged this thread waaaay off topic.
Honestly, I know it's nice to keep in touch, but that doesn't interest me since nothing will ever come of it. Where I have swapped contact details convs have always fizzled out quickly becuase Iam too busy to keep them up. I'm more than happy to keep talking here :)
Of course, I'd never say never but that's fair enough.
Slightly back on topic, I missed out one encounter. She was an American girl who I'd known from 4chan for years, but hasn't spoken to her for ages when one day she messages me out of the blue to tell me she's in London, and did I want to meet up. Long story short, she was kinky as fuck.
Ltr girl had some kinks, yeah. The big ones were being choked, so there was a lot of fucking with my hands around her throat. She was also into me jerkin' it with the tip inside her, so I was happy to indulge her there.
The American, fucking hell. She wanted to be slapped, spat on, spanked, have her nipples twisted and bitten, shouted at, called names.... All sorts.
Oh god, I'm into everything you just mentioned except for the real nipple pain stuff. Lucky girl!
>She was also into me jerkin' it with the tip inside her
Literally never thought of that before but it's now added to my sexual wishlist :P That is really sexy, quite romantic as well. Ex had a thing for cumming over my tummy. Lot of time spent watching him wank lol
Oh it wasn't real nipple pain, just in the general scheme of being abused. It was a surreal night. In the morning we got up early as she had to go catch her flight home and we parted ways at the tube station. I could do with more of that it my life.
Yeah I think she liked the intimacy of it, plus the thought of me just coming inside her and the feeling of my hand pumping against her vag.
I can totally understand. I've also spent many a time on my front with my legs spread getting spunked in my arse crack. He liked embarrassing me but Ifound anything involving his cum super intimate.
Never tried that but now I want to...
Another huge turn on is when getting head, grabbing the girl by the hair and pushing her down on me when I come, so I come right down the back of her throat. Perfection.
Your fwb is a lucky guy.
Interesting way at looking at it... I don't have a problem with this, you filthy thing you. How about a physical description of yourself? All we know is that you're a B cup.
Oh fuck yeah, you have really pushed a button here lol
I'd want to be part of his morning bathroom routine: brush teeth, get blowjob, spit all over my face, empty your load in my arse. This is fucking dirty
That's something I could get with. Head off to work and leave you with a huge load of jizz dripping out of you.
You're tiny. 6'2, slim build, pale, short brown hair and brown eyes.
I think so! I like looking up at a guy (and looking up to him in the metaphorical sense), whether standing or on my knees. I like being cuddled up to a guy's chest if we are standing or lying down.
Sometimes physical sensations will make me tear up, like your example, but also intense feelings and emotion. Sometimes I've got tearful during really romantic sex which is probably a big turn off.
What seemd to bring out the sadistic streak in my ex though plus another guy I was with before is being insulted or teased and it getting a little close to home. The first guy was in a time when I was very insecure, and when our relationship was in trouble I would try to win him over with sex. Sometimes we would have a furious row and then he'd expect sex from me. The more I begged him not to leave me the harder he seemd to fuck me. It was borderline abusive and I'm a bit ashamed of how I was back then, but it tapped into something I get off on. Sexuality is weird.
I seem to pull off short skirts and dresses well provided whoever is looking doesn't mind chunky thighs. In my fantasy yes I would dress slutty for an adventure like that.
I've done it while driving but not to the point of orgasm. There have definitely been times when I've slipped away to a toilet somewhere to get my self off if horniness ois really interfering with whatever I'm trying to do, but not very often.
Nothing special :(
I do have some low tops though that show part of my boobs.
Talking of exhibitionism I do have a nice memory of going home with a guy I barely knew (sort of a drunken pull / one night stand thing) and in the morning feeling like a tease so I got up and just walked around naked, made him a cup of tea and stuff all totally naked. He was well impressed with me!
And the same to you, you sound like fun ;)
For putting the idea in my head of being spat on by a guy brushing his teeth some guy who has never met you is going to owe you one, that is so fucking hot I don't understand it.
Not going anywhere just yet btw!
It's a great one.
That sounds hot to watch. I could watch that on my knees if the guy didn't feel I was worthy of giving him a blow job while he got ready in the morning. I'm a bathroom slave after all.
I have to type!
More like, when I can be bothered to go to the trouble of lubing up and taking it very slowly. It's not a common occurence but it's dirty-hot when it happens :P
I've mopped up plenty of cum before, so yes.
And I am a great sub! Thank you!
HArd pain is a limit, yes. I like being spanked until my bum is red but I don't like fucking welts and bruises. Scat would be a limit, although (should I admit to this?) part of what turns me on about the bathroom fantasy is waiting in there patiently while he takes a shit, and trying not to gag on the smell. I don't want it anywhere near me, just the idea of being in the room gives me that degraded feeling. Other hard limits are usual stuff like children and animals. I am also very averse to having pictures taken of me.
Sometimes with my bf if I had some reason to be home all day I'd have a lie in, then would keep intending to get up and clean myself up but never maange it. Then I'd hear the door and think oh shit, he's back and I am repulsive. He would get into bed and fuck me anyway but he was amazed by my laziness.
If I could just magic you two here now to spitroast me I would do it. I've revealed a lot to you here and you get me. I need a guy like that (or two) to treat me how I need to be treated, and put me in my place.
I would love to have a threesome with guys who didn't care about coming into contact with each other's cum. The idea of sloppy seconds and making a total mess of me sounds incredible.
I know! He's away for the weekend. And he's more a casual boyfriend than a fuckbuddy. He also knows I'm a horny sort of girl but he sees me all made up and wearing matching underwear and all that. He hasn't seen the filthy, smelly disgusting pig side of me yet. I don't know how he would react.
I'd crawl around on all 4s and oink for you. I could imagine doing that for a dare or something in front of a whole room of guys who didn't realise I was getting off on it.
He either will, or he'll be turned off by it and run a mile. He could do a lot more than he's done, let's say, yes. I'm not sure how much kink does for him but he is good in bed.
Makes it nice and accomodating ;)
And I put my tablet on charge while I was on the toilet. What is it with you that makes me tell you revolting intimate stuff about my toilet functions?
I'm a repulsive dirtly little pig
Not exactly. If i get on all fours though and relax it though my hole will sort of open slightly, not gaping. It's hard to explain but i can feel it happen and sometimes hear a little wet noise..... this has got to be TMI now
Well you three, I've gotta say I'm impressed.
I'm not much use to any of you I don't think,
23 Bi male in Birmingham. Pretty sub, I like femdom. I can take a fair bit of abuse, even CBT is okay by me, but I enjoy the softer things more, being tickled, teased etc.
I'm a Daddy Dom.
I love little princesses
wow long convo! good on ya all!
37 m bi my kink is obvious from my pic
oh and im in peterborough
26 male birmingham got nothing to do today, anyone wanna hang out? don't use kik or whatever, just mail me at LLviu@yahoo.com
I have a sexy romanian accent
I don't get why area code matters... birmingham is one single area for me. I just take the bus to the center and get a 2nd bus. I used to go to work daily from wolverhampton to shirley (35miles) and sometimes we waited 2-3 hours for the car to pick us up
It matters to me because I don't drive and I'm frugal (haven't used the buses here in the whole five years since I moved down). If I can't get to it on the bike, or train and bike, it's nothing.