>27 years old
>only had one gf
Where do I find a friend with benefits to practice kinky sex with? Pissing, sex in public, some bondage... Most girls of that type want an experienced man. Some fucking Suit with collection of sex-gadgets in the cellar of his private house.
Get out of your house in the morning and go to the gym. Go to work. After work, start hitting bars and clubs at around 11pm until you find the right nights to attend. Repeat. Done.
It's even more fun once you're paid to do it.
Some of us grow out of our antisocial behaviors, others stay in college to avoid real life. Can't help it if you and OP are the latter.
Fuck the gym. I look good. I was just fired from my job, will get a new one soon. What do I talk about? Typical smalltalk, where you from etc? Or straight about sex and coming over to my place? Does that ever work? I don't wanna waste my time collecting fucking numbers.
Ideally, you get to know some regulars on a first name basis for two reasons.
Firstly, so you're not sitting alone all the time like a creep while on the hunt. Secondly so if you see someone they're talking to that you're interested in, you have an in with that person and an excuse to introduce yourself too them.
Never open with shit like, "How are you? or anything like that. Find something to comment on. Their jacket, shirt, hair, whatever. From there, move to what's around you/going on, then (Or directly to) asking them about themselves.
Picking people up from a bar is easy, especially if clientele that night is in the 50's range. Number, not age.
The titties look like muscles under a shirt and when the girl is drunk. Actually they are for the most part muscles.
Fucking right away is my best choice. I have a terrible personality (ADHD etc). But I dont mind "curvy" or "special" girls. Actually I am more likely to fall in love with one, but that is not my intention.
Dude, losing weight takes time. Months. I need to fix my confidence and learn how to pick up girls.
Right now I don't even know where to have sex with them. I have a comfy 1-person bed and a disgusting 2-person couch from a previous tenant here. Also I am not sure if I should call a taxi or of riding the subway for 10 minutes and then another 10 minute walk to my place would be acceptable too. What do you think?
Bullshit. You just don't want to appear like a slut, while being just like everyone else (not that there is anything wrong with it). If your favorite celebrity asked you out in a club, you certainly would say yes. I'm wondering why you even have to defend your alleged standards when you are anonymous.
I am not going to waste time "improving" myself. That is what I did until my mid 20s, when I finally got my gf. Always telling myself, I dont have this or that, what it takes to have a girl. Improving yourself is just an excuse for not trying it out.
I am a bit too old to have crushes on celebrities or date people just for their physical appearance.
I don't care if people think I am a slut, especially strangers on an anonymous site.
I just don't understand the appeal of being fucked by a random cock when I can have better sex in a long term, or even by masturbating.
This is not about you, this is about me. I don't care about you defending your pride. Stop being so self-centered.
You see that I have a confidence issue and I am not so fat that no woman in this 2.000.000 city I live in, would ever have sex with me. You also do know that guys who have had too few girls in their life are perceived as losers, by both men and women. If you are older, you very likely have had your share of cocks in your early 20s.
So your "advice" of improving myself and waiting is just utter shit. Go away.
I wouldnt mind. my shared-flat-mates have seen me naked, my swimming-club-mates have seen me naked, getting naked in front of my ex was so fucking boring in contrast. but right now I am tired. I am from Europe and stayed awake all night. Maybe tomorrow, anonymously.