Girlfriend broke up with me a week ago. Today I found out it was because I opened up to her and told her I thought it would be hot to watch her with another guy. Esp. If he was much bigger than me, extra points if he was black.
She said it creeped her out.
>btw: I'm not beta in any way unless you consider liking this to be beta.
Would you femanons lose respect for your guy or get creeped out if he opened up about liking this sort of thing?
How many femanons are into letting your SO watch you with other guys?
How should I approach the subject in the future?
Should I even ever bring it up?
This was actually the biggest factor in my breaking up with my ex. It totally destroyed us, he was obsessed and I just didn't want to get fucked by anyone but him. He wouldn't stop talking about it, tried to guilt me, tried to get me drunk to do it. You name it.
I loved him so hard too but I couldn't deal with what his cuck obsession turned him into.
>"sweetheart please take this gigantic nigger dick for me. see how much bigger he is than me?"
You're deluding yourself. Just accept you are a cuck. The sooner you do, the sooner you can stop feeling weird about it
Sooner or later you will find a girl who is into it, until then don't sweat it anon
>wants a big black guy to fuck his girlfriend
How much are you trying to be a stereotypical cuck?
I would never with a friend. Would have to be a guy we would never bump into ever again. Maybe if we were on vacation or something.
Wouldn't want anyone we knew to know.
i will never for the love of god understand you cucks, fucking disgusting.
you want to see your girl get filled up with someone else's cum and then proceed to fuck her cum infested cunt?
like what the fuck dude, beta beyond what's naturally possible.
It made me feel unwanted, made me feel like all the precious time we had put into one another was lacking meaning. It confused me why he'd want anyone else to have me but him, as I wanted only to be his. I understand some people don't see it that way and that is fine, for me though it just broke my heart and freaked me out
I divorced my husband over his cuckolding fantasy. He was never great in bed, but I didn't care. Around the time I brought up having kids, he opened up about his cuckolding fantasy. Next thing I know he was bringing black men to our house for me to fuck. Some were good; others just pounded my cervix and talked shit to my husband. He and I had always used condoms, so, naturally, he insisted the black men take me bareback, even though I have adverse reactions to birth control pills and can't take them. He didn't care that I wanted them to bring clean bills of health.
I went to a clinic to get checked. They found I was clean, thank the lord, but I was pregnant. I hired a divorce attorney over the phone while at an abortion clinic.
Now I'm in my late 30's without a husband and the chances of having a child are dwindling thanks to my ex-husband's racist insecurities.
Your girlfriend is right to break up with you.
Sorry to hear you had a bad experience.
I would never have forced her, or demanded. I just said it's one of my fantasies. I learned my lesson though. Not gonna bring it up again to future gf.
I could never have a friend do it. Would have to be someone we met online and we didnt interact with outside of the bedroom.
>I now know I shouldnt have. Should have kept it secret.
Absolutely the opposite of this. If she really chucked you because she can't handle your sex stuff... GOOD RIDDANCE. You just did yourself a favour. You think you'd be better off being miserable AND hiding in shame and secrecy forever, forever resenting and distrusting her?
Don't take this as proof of anything but that she wasn't enough for you.
I made a mistake before with a guy for 2 months when I was with my boyfriend.. And to be honest, his confidence meant more than the size of his dick, but his huge dick (I measured it almost 8 inches and as thick as my wrist) made it feel REALLY good.
If my Bf found out and got turned on by it? I think I'd leave him.. Or lose a lot of respect
She was right to break up with you. Women don't want a fuck. We want a man who will be with us forever, one we can trust with anything. If my BF wanted to betray our trust to fuel his fetish, I'd drop him too.
I've seen cuckold porns on his comp, I know he's into that crap. If he makes that public to me though, I think it'd be looked down so much. Plus, he might just like the porn type but not want to participate.. Idk
Fem here. First off, I think it's really important to talk out fetishes as you work through a relationship. It can really affect the relationship in the long run if you are in a situation you are not satisfied with.
For me, I am non-monagamous. I hate the idea of being tied down to one person and don't date anymore because of it. I love sex and am quite a dom with men and women. As far as sex is concerned, I can make a distinction between sex for fun and sex for love. I have no issues with me or my partner having sex with someone else since for me it is different. It's the same for voyering or group sex. I don't date anymore because there are not enough people that support non-monogamy and I'm not going to be in monogamous relationships anymore just because others say that that's the right way to love someone.
Be honest and open with your partners and you will find someone who can share your desires with you.
You ever probe? Ask how he would feel about you being with other guys? Or are you afraid to ask?
My ex told me the same thing and encouraged me to share...i did... so here i am.
Yes, I would lose all respect for him.
I don't know how you could bring it up or anything because I'd drop a man who even suggested it.
I sound like a complete bitch, but this is the absolute worst fetish to me and I can't imagine spending my life with someone who wants me to be a cumdumpster for many men.
Don't listen to the feminazis who are calling your fetish exploitative, OP. There's nothing wrong with your desire to see your lady fucked by a dominant man. It's about sperm competition and all. In all honesty, your GF left you because she thought she was better than you/could do better than you. If it wasn't your cuck fantasy, it would have been something else.
My husband didn't force me into it. We both agreed that it wasn't a fetish we wanted to indulge in once we had kids in the house. I had my misgivings, but it meant a lot to him so I did it.
I wouldnt want it that way.
It would only turn me on to know that she wanted it. Or another guys dick more than mine. I want to know that she cant wait to do it again. I wanna hear that she loves me but he fucks her better.
Hope you dont mind me saying it, but I feel your ex should have been more considerate of your feelings. If my partner doesn't show enthusiasm for the idea, Id drop it, and that's what I did. My ex just gave me this look and that was the end of the conversation. We broke up a few days later.
LMFAO OP PLEASE KILL YOURSELF.
I don't blame her, you sound like a beta ass little bitch, it's not normal to want another guy to fuck your girlfriend, she views you as weird and as weak.
Your lifestyle choices are going to lead to nothing but pain and misery for you and any girl you meet. Your best bet is too advertise yourself on craigslist as a cuck that wants to watch and be humiliated. The only other option would be suicide.
Why don't guys like you just come out of the closet and admit to yourselves you're gay? Why do you keep up this charade of a fetish where you're hyper focused on other men's penises? It's just time to admit what it's about: you're fags. Go find a dick to suck, and get it over with.
>but it meant a lot to him so I did it.
Do you fucking see this? This is the result of porn brain, cultural marxist degeneracy making its way into our culture. Selfish, hedonistic pleasure taking priority over the wellbeing of the relationship.
IF YOU COME ACROSS MEN SUCH AS THIS, AVOID THEM. THEY ARE DEPRAVED SICK FUCKS WHO SHOULD BE QUARANTINED.
EDUCATE YOURSELVES. WHO RUNS THE PORN INDUSTRY? WHO'S BEHIND ALL OF THIS BBC FETISHISM?
WHO COULD IT POSSIBLY BE?
It's not a lifestyle choice, it's just something that turns me on. Told my gf about it now i'm single.
I never even suggested she do it. I just told her i thought it would be hot and I'd be cool with it.
All I got was some questions and a weird look, then we dropped it.
>It's not a lifestyle choice
>implying you dont have a choice to not watch cuckold porn
>implying you absolutely have to enable your degenerate fantasies because 'muh turn ons'
It doesn't have to be this way OP, wake up and realize you have a mental illness.
I told my gf and have exposed her a few times. She understands but is not interested. Now I'm never going to mention it again. It is kind of a power and control thing for me. Also just a bit of an equalizer
My fantasy evolved into her telling me that she was going over to the guys apartment because his brother from Alpha Phi Alpha was in town and wanted to introduce him to her and not to wait up.
Kinda glad I didn't tell her that part.
It's not that complicated damn...
The Jews have won. As this whole thread clearly proves, Greg Lansky (the Jewish owner of Blacked.com) and his ilk have created a generation of literal cucks.
>implying this fetish doesn't exist because right wing racists hypersexualize black people
It doesn't. As I already noted, >>23181173 the people who are behind this shit are Jews. The man who owns Blacked.com? The Jew Greg Lansky. The man who publicly shamed Alexis Texas and tried to get her fired unless she would do an interracial scene? The Jew Harvey Levin. The list goes on. This stuff has been well documented.
You implied it
The hypersexualization of Blacks was started by Blacks and continued by Marxists(Jews) and Blacks.
The right wing has always been opposed to pornography (an industry run by the Jews) in general, while the left has encouraged it, so I find it hard to believe that right wing people are to blame.
WTF does this have to do with me and my situation?
All this conspiracy shit?
Its pretty simple really, I get turned on by a cheating girlfriend or watching a girlfriend with another guy.
Genuine advice from a genuine human.
Don't let this fetish define your sex life or your existential life. It is very likely that with other girls in your future, you won't want to watch them have sex with other guys. Those relationships will be nice. If you do find that you want to watch them, however, you have to be honest with yourself and explain to them why you like it, fully aware that it is a sexual want and/or need of yours and has to be respected as much as any others. If they're right for you, they'll make it happen, and they won't be creeped out by it. At least not for very long.
tl;dr be yourself and make sure you at least get some vanilla sex first so if it doesn't work out you will still have another notch on your belt
>btw: I'm not beta in any way unless you consider liking this to be beta.
>I only want my girl to be fucked by other men, I'm not beta!
>Being that far in denial
If you were any more beta you'd be a helium nucleus
The owners of the website capitalize on insecurity rooted in mythical hypersexualization, anon. Also Blacked isn't really a cuck website, it just caters to the interracial fetish, which is, again, rooted in stuff long predating porn. There's the possibility that it's not even intentionally catering to the fetish at that and just is, well, a site for interracial sex because there is apparently a demand for it.
I'm a PROUD white cuck. Been into the fantasy for years and convinced my ex to get in on some bbc. She ended up falling for my black friend, who fucked her quite well and was just the confident guy she always wanted. It tore me up inside but now I'm so happy for her, and she's currently pregnant with his child. The fact that I fostered the end of her family's pure white genes (only child) makes me beam with pride.
Started dating a new girl a while ago and slowly working towards the cuck reveal. Another bloodline will be filled with b to the b to the c.
YOUR c--- LEVEL IS: 24%
NOT A KEK. Although you may indulge in one or two questionable habits or entertain a few less-than-savory sentiments, on the whole you are degeneracy-free and thoroughly uncucked.
>btw: I'm not beta in any way unless you consider liking this to be beta.
>unless you consider liking this to be beta.
So, anyone with a brain? Yes, I do consider this beta.
>girlfriend breaks up with you because you want to be cucked and she doesn't wanna cuck you
>this instead of the other way around where she breaks up with you for not wanting to be cucked
Quality woman, right there. Dodged a bullet leaving you and deserves much better.
Eventually most relationships will be hotwife/cuck based. Woman will realize the power they have and demand more and more cock, especially black cock. White patriarchy is dead. Long live the bbc.
>btw: I'm not beta in any way
You're either a cuck or a troll, you decide which.
I believe that many women would be adverse to this situation and would feel that their SO does not respect them and views them as nothing more than a piece of meat. It's only in the porn world that this behavior is normalized.
thank god, i was starting to think all white women were into this cuckold shit. This is disgusting why would you ever want your gf or wife to fuck any other guy, let alone a black guy? Fucking gross.
I would not even fuck a girl thats been with a black guy, because im not a cuck in anyway.
The irony being that this morning she came over under the auspices of needing to pick something up and we ended up having sex. Still broken up though.
I did however imagine she had been with a BBC the night before while we were doing it.
Specifically the beginning scene where they talk in the car: http://www.xvideos.com/video9424293/blacked_big_booty_girl_abella_danger_worships_big_black_cock
Could never do it with a friend. Would have to be a stranger or someone we didnt socialize with. Would really enjoy her going on fuck dates with him also and them sending me the occasional pic of her/them. Telling me how good it is.
Wouldn't want it to go further than just sex though.
You're worse than the guys that make slut threads and tell the girls that post in them that fucking 50 guys is normal. If this asshole is miserable because his wife doesn't want to get fucked by strangers then he has serious issues and so do you.
Never said I was miserable because my gf wasn't fucking strangers. I just told her it was a fantasy of mine and I'd be open to it.
I was happy, and can be happy without my gf fucking other guys.