I thought /soc/ would be the best spot for this.
So my ex and I have been kinda talking since we broke up.
We broke up over some kinda bs a few months ago.
Lately, and this weekend, shes been texting me a lot to hang out. As soon as I respond she'll change her mind or just not respond to me the whole night.(shes also been recently introduced to coke, and I believe shes been doing a lot)
Now this morning she says she sorry. Shes been trying to contact me today.
I haven't responded.
Should I respond? if not when? How do I handle this so I can eventually get with her in the future.
I feel like if I respond it will just make more cuck.
Yeah, learn to subdue that feeling.
A chick doing coke will fuck you over with no hesitation if it's over something involving coke.
If you're incorrect and she's not stuck on coke, ask her what she wants.
I just cucked. She called and I answered. I tried to say as cold, and "whatever" while I was on the phone. She just asked me what times I was doing shit today. She gave me the impression she wants to hang out with me tonight.
sounds to me like she is just stringing you along just in case she has nothing go on.Hence when she does have something you dont hear from her.
i would just fuck her till you get a new chick lined up.
I think its more than that, I think she wants to know she has control over me.
She has enough friends and is good looking enough to not have a problem with finding something to do or someone to fuck.
I do think I'm the only person that can make her cum. Last time I did ~month ago she started crying.
Already fucking other chicks. Just not really into them.
Alright, I don't know the circumstances of the situation but if she does ask to do whatever later on either decline or you trash her plans and tell her to come to your place. Following her terms won't actually work cause like other anon said, she's stringing you along.
well she clearly isnt into you any more. Just with the way she acts and the way you perceive her to wanting to control you.
Just move on from her. You are wasting your time and it will be harder the longer you play these games with her