>>23135563 My ex was 5'7", I am 5'6". I thought he was handsome, and never cared about his height in the slightest. I generally like tall guys, but no girl in her right mind would ever reject a guy for his height.
>>23135574 >>23135581 Well that's cool but i think there are a lot of females that have rejected me for my height, not that my other qualities are amazing but definitely a lot of girls care about height. Just see shit like heightismexposed, it's crazy.
Also as a 5'7 guy i have always found tall, slender girls to be the hottest and i want a tall gf to wrap herself like a big, warm cuddly snake around me and tell me that it's all going to be okay.
>>23135625 Why don't you think abut getting better overall, instead of focusing on the fact that you're not that tall? My roommate dates a guy who is shorter than me, and she's 5'11 and very thin. He is handsome, smart, funny, kind and cooks like a God. I'd date someone like him any second.
>>23135650 Yeah tall and thin girl dating less than 5'6 tall guy? You must be fucking kidding me. Is he made out of money? Because girls always say shit like "oh you need to be smart, funny, NICE, yadda yadda" but all that matters is looks, money and not being a complete psychopath or a retard which most men aren't.
>>23135656 He lives off scholarship. He is about 5'5. I don't think her face is that cute, but she's definitely tall and quite thin. Super long legs and all.
I think that you're trying to ignore the fact that if you took care of your looks and improved your personality, a lot of girls would find you attractive, despite your height. Also, honestly, money doesn't really matter to no one I know, at least at my age (I'm 22).
>>23135679 Well where i live people care a lot about money, basically you need to have your own place, decent car and a good job so you can provide all of the needs of the girl, which is hard because the country is poor.
However my face is ugly and yeah my personality is not the best but i still believe my height and my face are like 90% of the reason no girls are ever attracted to me. Just from the way women act around good looking tall guys i simply can't believe what you are saying. I've seen tall, good looking guys get SWARMED by girls that barely know them just of what they are, while they ignore average or below average guys entirely.
Of course not all women are like that but i think most are.
>>23135686 >basically you need to have your own place, decent car and a good job so you can provide all of the needs of the girl You should do this things for yourself, not to get a girl. She should be able to take care of her own needs.
Of course you have to work a bit harder than more attractive guys, and surely height is a factor in attraction. But it's not like you can't get girls if you're not tall. That's just a delusional and self-exculpatory way of thinking. A confident, nice and charming guy with average looks would get any girl.
>>23135708 Average isn't 4/10. Average is 6/10. And it's definitely not impossible. I know many average guys who get girls way better looking than them because they're amazing people. I rejected really attractive guy to date average looking guys because of their personalities. And I'm sure I'm not the only one.
>>23135624 ...not that it should come as a surprise to anyone, I should add.
I was just bored and started wondering what this troll picture would look like when applied 100% literally. I thought the result was interesting, even if it's quite obvious. I thought other people might find it mildly interesting as well, guess I was wrong.
>>23135718 I think 5'9"-5'11" looks very reasonable next to the average female. Which would make sense, since it's the male average.
>>23135669 Agreed. That's why I made the metric units bigger.
>>23135726 Most guys should be 4/10 because they mostly don't care about eating healthy, don't exercise often and have shitty taste in clothes. Average being above average doesn't even make any sense. What was so amazing about those people anyway? I have never met anyone that could be classified as amazing.
>>23135735 Most guys I know are definitely 5-6/10.
>they mostly don't care about eating healthy, don't exercise often and have shitty taste in clothes Maybe the problem isn't the height, then? A person who doesn't give a shit about looks shouldn't expect a victoria secret model to beg him to suck his dick.
>What was so amazing about those people anyway? They were very intelligent, with a great sense of humour. Also, kind and nice guys. Genuinely. Not people who were kind just to fuck me. They were also ambitious and reliable. And sweet, in a non-cliché way.
>>23135743 It's not below average, it's the real average and i explained why.
>>23135750 >Most guys I know are definitely 5-6/10.
women standards, in reality you see them as below average but can't admit it to us or yourself
>Maybe the problem isn't the height, then? A person who doesn't give a shit about looks shouldn't expect a victoria secret model to beg him to suck his dick.
So average guys can't actually get hot girls then? Because the average guy can't afford to have great diet and train his body all the time. Once again women standards talking. Average for you is probably 7/8 out of 10.
>They were very intelligent, with a great sense of humour. Also, kind and nice guys. Genuinely. Not people who were kind just to fuck me. They were also ambitious and reliable. And sweet, in a non-cliché way.
Basically stuff that almost every male is on the inside?
>>23135735 >Most guys should be 4/10 because they mostly don't care about eating healthy, don't exercise often and have shitty taste in clothes. Average being above average doesn't even make any sense. What was so amazing about those people anyway? I have never met anyone that could be classified as amazing.
If that's the profile of any person of average appeal or less, there are a fuck ton more women than men that represent the standard.
>in reality you see them as below average but can't admit it to us or yourself Sure, how could I ever admit I prefer attractive guys on an anonymous board, it would surely ruin my reputation.
>Because the average guy can't afford to have great diet and train his body all the time. Eating healthy and exercising a bit is something that literally everyone can do. If they don't, it's just because they're lazy. I wouldn't date a lazy ass who isn't able to take care of himself, and I am not even that attractive.
>Basically stuff that almost every male is on the inside? That's so much bullshit. Most people aren't, obviously, more intelligent than average. And many people can't really make me laugh. If they can't even get up of the couch and run for 15 minutes a day or afford salad, they obviously aren't ambitious. Being reliable, kind, sweet... most guys are sweet to girls just to fuck them. And they're pathetic while doing it.
Go to the ideal mate thread, the first thing every girl says is "6feet+"
Sure in a thread like this they're more concerned about saying something that sounds good, but look at their actions. Every girl saying they'd date a short guy hasn't actually done that and actually rejected guys for their height.
It's fucking stupid, women are fucking stupid. Screwed by genetics, if your short all you can do is settle for an obese slutty bitch who treats you like shit, having any semblance of standards mean a dying a virgin. It's not fair and I'm sorry.
>>23135892 >Go to the ideal mate thread, the first thing every girl says is "6feet+" It is called ideal. Dream guys/girls are pretty awesome, but they don't exist. No one is expecting to date their ideal.
>Every girl saying they'd date a short guy hasn't actually done that and actually rejected guys for their height. Bullshit.
>>23135907 That is utter bullshit, as someone who posts in that thread all the time I specify I don't give a fuck about height. My best friend is 5'8 and her bf is 5'6. Guys from 4chan think what is said on here is the be all end all when it's just a small really butthurt portion of the internet.
>>23136181 You clearly don't see what she was saying, EVERYONE has prefrences but that doesn't mean that something other than the prefrence is a deal breaker. Like she said, you'd pick a 10/10 girl over a 6/10 girl anyday but that doesn't mean you wouldn't go for the 6 either.
>>23136204 manjina comes to the rescue, protip - i don't need to be mad to call out a retarded bitch trying to shovel shit down our throats
>>23136211 You are clearly retarded if you don't realize that she will only go for the tall guys which she prefers. Not a deal breaker - yeah that doesn't mean anything, at best it means that she will settle and be unhappy with a guy that is NOT what she wants. God help him because he will always wonder what he did wrong and why is she miserable to him.
>>23136220 You wont acknowledge what either of us are saying because it is true and makes your over the top anger seem less legit. Not having your 'dream guy' doesn't mean you are going to be unhappy with the person you fall in love with, it's like you have no concept of actual relationships.
You need to learn some anger management, perhaps some of your issues stem from that and I hope you eventually seek help.
I'm 6'6" and my girl is 5', looks fucked up and you can imagine how hard some things get with that height difference, but all of her friend are jealous cause their dudes are all pretty small compared to me. Bitches love tall guys.
>>23136181 Insulting people during an argument just makes you sound like a whiny, dumb teenager. Grow up.
I really like tall and lanky guys with green eyes and dark hair and beard. I never dated a guy like that, even if they asked me out more than once. I dated guys far from my ideal and I've been very happy with them. Not because I settled down, but because they were great guys and they made me happy. I think I've been a good girlfriend to them, or at least they say so. If you think that height or looks is what matters most in a relationship, you clearly have no idea of what a relationship is. If you think that I'd be miserable to someone just because they're not my 10/10, you don't understand anything about what a healthy and happy relationship is.
Lol, Italian 5'11 - 8 inch dick here. Height doesn't matter, as penis size (Unless you're VERY short - under 5'8 - under 4 inches) All that matters is, personality. If you're 6'4 but you have your hands full of spaghetti, good luck challenging shorter guys but with a lot of self confidence
really, that's all you manginas can come up with to help the damsel in distress?
>>23136268 I don't care how you see me, that should have been obvious, but you are one dumb bitch so i am clarifying it to you. You don't deserve my respect by default, i am not just another simp. You are a lying whore and you deserve the insults. You have no arguments, just using hole denial as a way to shame me, and "grow up" when you don't like the truth in your face, typical stupid whore tropes.
Just admit it and be over with, you like tall good looking guys like every other woman. You will settle for other men because "it's not a deal breaker". But until you have the dick of a tall and handsome guy you will spew your shit because you have nothing better to do.
I said my face is adequate; how is that a tall horse? Its adequate because I am consistently dating pretty/in shape girls and being solicited by other ones. My last gf and I had several threesomes and several offers for additional gfs since she was bi and our relationship was female poly. I've literally had relationships struggle because of the amount of external female attention I was receiving
Now that's more to do with my personality/income/social standing/confidence but my aesthetic wasn't bad enough to prevent it, so my face is "adequate".
>>23136290 If you're still wondering why no one wants to fuck you, that's why. Even if you were a tall Greek god, you'd still be repulsive because you're an immature, frustrated idiot.
I have been asked out by tall, handsome guys and rejected them without thinking twice for shorter and less attractive guys because I preferred their personalities. I like tall and handsome guys, of course I do, and I have no problem admitting it. But having a relationship and finding someone attractive is not the same thing. It's not settling, there are more important things than looks when you're looking for a long term partner.
>>23136305 I can't feel anger towards a dumb bitch i will never see or hear from again. I just pointed out the bullshit she gives, that's all. There are no points to acknowledge, she literally admitted what i said but gives the typical "grow up" whore shaming language because i don't instantly agree with her, just like every other beta faggot that surrounds her.
I like all types of girls, like most guys unlike women who all want pretty much the same package or nothing unless they are rolling in poverty and desperately need a provider.
>>23136319 Kek dumb bitch got triggered, i like how you keep using your holes argument even after i pointed it out and regardless of the fact that i never actually said that i don't get pussy, you assume it because i am 5'7.
Wow you have rejected a tall guy, what a NAWALT, a real catch. You basically admit that you are settling but don't really like the sound of it?
Don't bother responding, i am really tired of your mental gymnastics, you are a carbon copy of every dumb bitch out there.
>>23136332 That is highly doubtful, if a 5'4 215 lb girl with acne and bad bo came up to you and a 5'5 110lb perfect skin sweet girl did at the same time we both know you wouldn't go with the ugly girl.
You are angry and it's painfully obvious by your frantic tone and choice of words.
>>23136357 She said essentially the same thing, that she likes tall guys but also likes shorter guys and would date either. So what exactly is your logic? Oh yeah, she is a girl so she is liar. Okay anon, sweet deal.
>>23136371 No, you said that she is a liar for saying that she would date a shorter guy but also likes tall men where as you are super open minded and like all women reguardless of how they look, it's just 'dirty whore logic' for women to like tall men.
I know a good number of short guys. They don't have any trouble getting laid, because they don't have this big complex about their heights. They are pretty charming guys who are fun to be around, have their heads on straight, and some semblance of a life path - even if its paths that don't have a huge pay off, in the end they still have a plan and some hobbies.
Most women I know want a dude taller then them, and just because of gender differences, chances are you're going to be taller than most women. Is it a make or break thing though? No. Most of the "OH WOMEN HATE SHORT GUYS" I end up seeing is dudes getting rejected, then flipping out and assuming it's because they are short.
>>23135625 So you want someone based on height, and you don't want to be rejected based on height.
(Also: I imagine that a lot of women would find the need for reassurance to be somewhat offputting)
>>23135686 I would venture that hot buxom girls get swarmed in the same sense, but it doesn't mean that hot buxom girls are the only ones that have a chance in the dating world.
As you're said, you're presuming why people are not attracted to you. Is it possibly correct? Yeah - but my first question to anyone that complains about lack of a relationship is ... What exactly do *you* bring to a relationship? Why would someone want to date you? Do you create room in your life for people?
>>23135708 Also, fuck numerical rating systems. I will second >>23135726 though in that I know lots of average people who get above average women. Hell, I am of the opinion I'm on the (maybe higher end) of average, but the people I tend to date are fucking gorgeous.
>>23135735 I've met a lot of people who could be classified as amazing.
>>23135755 Projecting, man, projecting *fucking hard*. Even as another dude, I can guarantee that "pretty much every male" is NOT 'very intelligent, with a great sense of humor ... [genuinely] kind and nice ... Ambitious, reliable, and sweet in a non-cliche way".
Regardless: The point is you're saying the real average is a below average number. I know what you're getting at ("the average guy would presumably get rated 4"), but that goes against the point of a rating system (which, again, is fucking stupid).
Similarly, you don't need a great diet and 'train your body all the time' - there's a lot of ways to give a shit about looks outside of that, and someone doesn't have to be uber-fit.
>>23135776 (Of a side note: Hilariously, the majority of people rate themselves as above average - this is in all categories. People are super fucking skewed on self perception).
Outside of that, I will raise an eyebrow at 'running daily' is considered ambitious. It's a positive trait and all, yes, but not something I'd slot in that category.
>>23136220 A lot of people's dream guy/girl is, say, Brad Pitt or Christina Hendricks. It doesn't mean if they date anyone other than those celebrities they are settling and will be unhappy.
>>23136268 Honestly, people have weird perspectives on dating here - it's why you get a lot of the questions like "Here's my picture, would you date me?" There's a lot more to dating than just .. Being an aesthetic. Lot of people - male or female - on here, just see a partner as an accessory.
>>23136953 > I will raise an eyebrow at 'running daily' is considered ambitious
I definitely expressed myself poorly. I meant motivated, more than ambitious. He said that most people "can't" exercise or eat healthy, I thought of how little motivation you need to have to be too lazy to run for 15 minutes or have a decently healthy diet.
Thanks for all your comments, I felt like everything I said had been misunderstood. You and >>23136375 gave me a bit of hope.
>People are super fucking skewed on self perception Heh, I know.
I think that a lot of people here have never been in a relationship or aren't mature enough to understand what a serious relationship takes. > Lot of people - male or female - on here, just see a partner as an accessory. Not only here, but in real life too.
>>23137096 I don't think it's being misunderstood; it's being purposefully taken that way. Like I said: There's a lot of folk that want to be able to blame others for their failings, it's easier to say "Women are bitches and won't date me because I'm short" than it is to admit they have any culpability. It's just pointless caustic bitterness.
People should be asking themselves what they actually bring to a relationship, why someone would *want* to date them, and if they allow space in their life for someone to fit.
It's all a big charade anyway, they don't care about "personality", they let tall rich muscley guys beat the shit out of them all the time just because they're high-status. Besides you can't change your personality so it's irrelevant, sweethearts will always be sweethearts, assholes will always be assholes.
Like the other guy said, if you're short just keep lowering the bar until someone accepts you, of course they'll be ugly and fat but it ain't gonna suck itself.
>>23137836 Wow dude, except for your shitty appearence, your shitty personality, which basically consists of showing off how 'cool' you are on literally the most autistic place on the internet, and your girlfriend who flirts with random strangers and creeps on this board (including myself), youre actually the coolest guy ive ever seen. I totally wanna be like you one day, so inspiring :^)
6'4" guy built and broad like I was a foot shorter. I have a fiery and powerful need to date a tall girl. Tallest girl I ever dated was 5'8" and I put personality and looks before height, but I pine to only have to tilt down a little bit and when I pick her up she be just a little above me.
Seriously, if you are single I want to get to know you.
>>23135329 6'4'', 6'5'' in shoes here. I maintain that short women should date short men, and tall men should date tall women. In the distant future the giants and the gnomes can go to war to settle this debate once and for all.
I live in The Netherlands, the country with second longest national average height in the world. I rarely meet females who are taller than I am. I had one ex which was the same height and who gives a shit. The only place you can find these sort of dipshit insults are 4chan. Hell, I'd probably even settle for a taller girl if she's cure enough. I'm fast, I'm athletic, I'm confident, no reason to worry over being perfectly average length.
>>23138652 This is, sadly, true >>23139084 6'2" girl reporting in. I tend to compensate for my insecurity about my height by changing my hair constantly - cutting dying, etc. - because it's something I have control over, unlike my height. Getting confused for a man because of my height is not fun ;~;
5'8'' here from Sweden. The reason why you other shortfags don't get girls is that you are insecure and females can sense that. No girl wants to be with a guy with more insecurities than her, be charismatic and confident and you will see that you are in no way disabled. Being short can have it's ups if you know how to not be a beta faggot.
>>23139279 I actually have a friend who is like 5'6'' and i envy him for the amount of pussy he gets, he is just so much more confident than me and i am already pretty confident. Girls feel very secure when they are with him and that has made some girls fall in love with him that won't let him go. He has an average face too
>>23139487 Let's do email. I don't check it super often but skype bogs my computer down and I've yet to actually set up my kik account. Obviously this is a throwaway, I'll give you a more personal one later if we mesh well. Others in this thread are free to email me too if they wanna chat. No dick pics though. Not into that shit. babystilts@outlook
>I have nothing else to offer besides my height Get the fuck off with this shit. Height is overrated as fuck. If you are charming and charismatic anyone will drop their pants for you. Stop sulking over shallow assholes.
Kek so much anger in this thread. Im a 175cm grill and I like males shorter than me. They are cute and I get a nice dominant feeling when Im bigger. Am I a special snowflake now guyz? Or is it that everyone has different preferences?
Its funny how tall people think that somehow being tall makes them better. You didn't do shit to be tall, its just something you are. Whereas being a douchbag is an active choice. I get by fine being a short dude.
>>23144888 I've been rejected over all of those except for virginity. I have however been rejected because of my promiscuous, so I suppose that's just the other side of the coin.
Rejection is a part of life, it doesn't fucking matter. It sucks, yeah, completely, but so what? It doesn't matter how attractive, rich, or amazing you are, there's going to be SOMEONE that doesn't dig it.
Just because you have a great personality and you're confident doesn't mean that you can get EVERY person.
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