Question for the people out there. I recently told my gf that since she has a higher libido than I do, that she should seek out another guy to basically have sex with when I am not interested. She agreed and said it was a logical decision. Now I am turned on by the idea of either watching or participating... how do I ask her if she's willing to go that far with it?
See at least for me, I love gangbang porn and seeing pornstars be slutty, so I encourage my fiancee to do the same because it's basically seeing your favorite porn star act out your favorite fantasy in person, and it makes her incredibly happy. Like what girl will ever cheat on a guy that lets her embrace her slutty desires and just fuck whoever she wants anyways? Ignore the trolls, hotwifing/subwifing is the hottest thing on earth.
Another good couple of analogies:
I think I'm not into the cuckold thing so much as the hotwife thing, but someone put it really well by saying watching your girl with another men or a group of men is like watching a live porno starring your favorite porn star in the world, and then you get to sleep with her after watching your fantasies come true.
The other one he suggested was the car analogy.. You spend your whole life saving up for your dream car, and when you finally get it, you wont let anyone touch it. You are very protective of it. You even brag about how much fun it is to drive. Your friends just can't grasp how much fun it is, and how much better it is than other cars. You decide the only way for them to properly understand is to let them have a test drive. Under your close supervision, of course.
Dunno how much I subscribe to that one but it may ring true to some of you.
It's an embarassing thing to admit for many men. But if that's really his fetish I doubt she's gonna object, she;d probably be more comfortable with him there than alone with strangers.
I'd think the difficult part would be telling her he wants her to sleep around, watching not so much.
I'd probably suggest something like a threesome and then afterwards telling her you really enjoyed just watching her have fun and would like to do that again if you don't want to just come out and say it.
Might also have the benefit of getting the other guy comfortable with the idea if it starts as a threesome.
>all these moralfags on fucking /soc/ of all places
absolutely hilarious. How is it possible to be so insecure in what you like that you have to raid a thread for people doing something you don't like?
I mean, have you met 4chan?
Maybe my fiancee and I have a weird relationship because we met on Fetlife, but we did this mojo sex compatability test that gave us a lot of fun new things to try and it turned out she was into a lot of things I didn't expect.
of course she agrees with you she's probably already doing it.
How on Earth could you tell you to do this and not have the kahunas to ask to watch?
What is the worst that would happen?
"Hey bae, I would like you to fuck other people"
"sounds great hun"
"I'd also like to watch, maybe even join in?"
"WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU DEGENERATE?!?!?"
If this isn't bait shitposting, she will be ok with being double teamed or watched.