>>26486732 I'd like to think so but honestly i'm not so sure. What i mean by that is i'd definitely help them in distress but i dont know if they would help me. >>26486751 It's just very unhealthy escapism. It's basically thinking over one thing over and over again.
>>26487192 I dunno, I just can't, I respect people too much. I'm that one guy that sees a problem and actually tries to fix it (after I overcome the social anxiety ofc). If you have a request, and I can assist you I will. You know when people say "oh I wish _____" directed for everyone, in hopes someone would do something? I would be that guy that did it. Heck, in HS half of my money spent on steam went to gifting people games, just because I wanted them to be happy. I won valedictorian purely because I was nice/generous/whatever. I'm like the perfect cuck in a sense (although I probably would put my foot down at some point). I don't really feel like I could be bitter, I'm that guy you take from but never need to give back
>>26487360 You're the angel among people. So girls doesnt find you intimidating if you in r9k on V-day? >>26487393 But does it really feel real? Not even at that moment when you're trying to sleep and think about life?
>>26487954 But you understand that with math you dont develop feelings or be in relationship? Projecting escapism on pixels isnt solution. You may think it's not that bad if you're the only one doing it but let's say if 30 or 40 proc of men would start doing it?
>>26488101 Did I even have a story if my own? Am I just a support character in others story? With the spotlight never lighting on me? Watching others live their lives, blossoming, would be nice if I didn't feel so empty all the time. Ah I guess I'm not fit for this world
> But you understand that with math you dont develop feelings or be in relationship?
Sure you do. People base their entire careers or modes of thinking around it, to the point that their entire understanding of reality is built on it. They have very strong feelings about it.
> Projecting escapism on pixels isnt solution. You may think it's not that bad if you're the only one doing it but let's say if 30 or 40 proc of men would start doing it?
How not? Escapism is just replacing our own reality for another. People turn to religion or science to answers to their problems to explain or escape their reality, what's so wrong about turning to Peruvian papercrafts?
The very basis of your claim is that its not real or its unhealthy, one of which is relative and the other of which is not even correlated. If you're going to throw stones, you're going to need a better argument than that.
>>26488062 Not the same anon but everything is in your head, be it outside world or not make it no different really because you experience it the same way. Its just a matter of how you look at life. Schizophrenics experience of hallucination is called not real because its non existent in most humans and doesnt reflect our reality but it is real to the schizophrenic the same way as other stimuli. Platos cave is what Im trying to say.
If you are still on the edge just remind yourself how futile and pointless everything is and you wont care anymore about this.
>>26487880 >But does it really feel real? Not even at that moment when you're trying to sleep and think about life? In the moment it feels real. I obviously know it's not, but as technology increases it will get more and more real. I don't do it out of enjoyment, I do it out of necessity. I'll never be in a functional relationship, so if I fully immerse myself in fake ones, I can convince myself that life isn't so tragic.
>>26488529 I know that feel. With that kind of helpful character you'd have been qt shy girl in alternative universe >>26488603 So you're doing the same as prisoner in confinement chamber just to save his sanity from going completely nuts?
>>26488690 Heh, I guess so, would be fun to do those hip sways. Female advantage in this world tho, I don't really like it, its a virtue issue. I wonder if escapism could help, I kinda doubt it, but you guys seem to be debating it
>>26486029 Let that feeling liberate you. You never have to worry about impressing anyone. You never have to worry about the feeling of falling in love and then having that person stab you in the back. You never have to worry about stupid shallow normie customs like dating, marriage, etc.
You can do anything you want and it's only up to YOU. You don't need anyone else to be awesome.
> you will never know the joy of someone hugging you from behind and whispering "I will always be there for you" > you will never have someone who's thinking about will cheer and motivate you in every situation > you will never feel fully accepted by another human being
Can the pain finally end? Can I finally stop caring about this? Please?
>>26489594 It's all lies. Relationships are just lies we use to reinforce our own egos. It doesn't matter what another person says or does, or even if they "believe" or really "mean" it. It's all just an abstraction both of you agree on in order to give lift some paltry meaning.
>>26489856 Even if so, reassurance can bring solice to misery. It's not about truthfulness, it's about the act itself. A warm word. A caring touch. A loving look. Even if they are all lies, we instinctively react positively to them. After all, we are all social creatures. It's a curse to all robots.
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