Help solve a debate.
Let's say a girl is whore. She's into the double digits. She has some sort of life crisis and decided to stop sleeping with people and hasn't slept with people for a few years. She still a whore right?
In my opinion people learn not to be whores by either being rejected/never initiating or they learn their lesson from actually being a slut.
My issue for the ex-sluts is the introspection they lacked previously. They kept their legs open and continued riding the carousel until much later in their life when there are clear signs of things not being right. If they want to be whores and are fine with it then I give zero fucks, I just wouldn't want them as a partner, but they're free to do as they wish. Realizing your mistake doesn't absolve you of it, and this isn't a mistake towards the world, it's a personal mistake. If they truly changed for the better I'd question not their behavior but lack of previous insight. That they did not think about all of this while they were whoring about and giving into hedonistic lifestyles. It tells you something about the personality. I'd give it a go but be doubtful.
The people who were never accepted into whore-heaven for whatever reasons can still be as bad, for they might be inner whores that never got a chance to express themselves, even then it's fucking tricky, but if they didn't get to fuck whatever person they wanted it would have led to some introspection about the behavior, leading some to truly not desire it because they find no value in it.
It's a gamble either way and no way of knowing if either of them are true sluts. My opinion applies to men as well.
Even though the whore-ish activity has ceased, it stays with them.
People can buy into all the magical thinking they like about the sexes being equal, but they aren't.
Male achieves reproductive fitness through multiple copulations. The amount of partners he's had does not negatively contribute to what he offers in sexual copulation.
Females achieve reproductive fitness through selecting the best male for copulation, and having it's offspring. As they age, this success goes down. The more partners they have also effect this. It also crosses paths with pair bonding in mammals, which humans are.
Girls are getting hit on every day by every guy. I think in the last few years in my town, every guy has just become thirsty as fuck. I don't know if its porn or what.
I saw a fat old indian guy in a park try chatting with a qt tourist then later run after another one across the street today. Shit is fucking crazy.
I picked up a girl I'd met online while she was walking to where we were going to meet, and a random guy in a car drove off as I approached 'cause he was offering her a ride. I said Who was that guy?' She goes 'I don't know. Happens all the time.'
I don't know how its possible for a girl not to be a whore nowadays and slip into double digits before they're 25.
that doesn't change all the genetic material you've been exposed to. skin/fluid, fluids obviously are going to be disgusting like no one in their right mind is going to want to kiss a girl from a gangbang video that had 3 or more guys jerk off into her mouth and she gurgles it. like skin is probably just as bad for disease potential stuff like staff infections, rashes, syphilis, herpes
people that get offered drugs every day don't become drug addicts
a guy has nothing to lose from actually making the offer for sex half the time it's a joke because they know they are going to get rejected. it's kind of annoying that women get so much of that though that just being polite and saying nice things to make them feel good is considered a clumsy pick up attempt like i've complimented people i like, doesn't mean i want to do anything about it just because im not being mean or just a little bit more nice than regular polite.
During difficult times in a relationship people tend to cope by reverting to old behaviours.
The nature of her past is a double edged sword
She either hides it and covers it up and lies to herself and others .
Or she is honest about a decietful past.
But im not a girl and there could be other alternatives im not considering.
>like skin is probably just as bad for disease potential stuff like staff infections, rashes, syphilis, herpes
It can be found out via medical testing whether she has those or not.
I would have no problem kissing a woman that had a whore phase several years back but had proven her recovery by being abstinent from that behavior in quite a while, as long as she is clean and doesn't have spawn that I have to raise.
depends on what the life crisis is. if she realized how much of a whore she is and stopped, then i'd give her a few points for self awareness. i would never be able to really trust a person like this though, people like this tend to use a lot of mental gymnastics to avoid responsibility.
but if her crisis was hitting the wall and not being able to ride the chad cock carousel then she's just a whore that is unable to be one.
>Did she take money in exchange for sex? If not, she's not a whore.
If you're going to be a pedantic shit, at least be correct.
>1.1: A promiscuous woman.